1989 MV's Letter -Nov.1

11-1-89

Dear Mom & Dad --

Thanks for your notes on the walk!  It went very well, including the talk I gave Sunday morning.  Several people wanted to know why I'm not going into the Pastorate!!  The novelty would wear off quickly preparing something each week.

Have any decisions been made about the location of Thanksgiving dinner?  If I'm (Don & I) coming home, I'd like to make plans to get together with Lorraine while she's in Middletown if possible.  If not, there's some people I work with I'd like to invite (if we're staying in Lexington).  I will arrive back in Lexington Tuesday pm from the Georgia/Alabama trip.

How did the Wilmington walk go?  I'm singing this Friday night at the Lexington gathering.  I need to head out as I have sharing group at lunch.  Call or write anytime.  Please give Grandma my love,

Your favorite KY daughter

1979 Catherine's Letter -Nov.1

Thursday, November 1, 1979

Dear Mother, Dad, and Mary,

Hi!  We were glad to get your letter today.  And to hear all the latest news from Ohio.  October was a bad month for me as far as writing letters go so here I am trying to get a better start in November.  I supposed it is about time to think about addressing Christmas cards.  With Thanksgiving being so early this year it won't be long until all those Christmas sales pitches will be heard.

Nothing much new on Gerry's forthcoming hospital visit.  He did find out that if he has surgery the minimum hospital stay after surgery is a week.  We had thought it might be longer than that so it was good news.  I'll be calling you next week when I have more information on what will be happening.  Several people have offered to babysit Wendy at various times and I'll fill out the gaps with the paid babysitter so that is being taken care of.

We had our apartment inspection today - that is Sandi came over from Eugene with her assistant.  I am always amazed how every month she can find a few little things that aren't as they should be.  I always try to take care of everything I can think of as well as all the things she has mentioned in the past but every month she comes up with something new.  She walks around the buildings with her notebook in hand jotting things down.  At least she doesn't find fault with the paperwork - that has to be my strong point.

Wendy has been under the weather for the past few days - hitting a low point yesterday afternoon.  I was going to take her to the Dr. today if she didn't show signs of improvement but she did seem a little better today and tonight she played for a little while before she went to bed so maybe tomorrow she will be more like normal.  Nothing really wrong with her except she had a fever and all she wanted to do was lie down - on the floor, on the sofa, wherever she happened to be.  And she didn't even ask to go outside which is very unusual for her.  I had been giving her Liquiprin for the fever.

I'm glad I got the 6-month inspection of the apartments taken care of.  I have almost finished with the repairs that were necessary - broken window locks, closet doors needing adjusted, and two towel racks that had fallen off the wall.  Nothing serious.  The next project is to re-certify all the tenants which means I have to give them a form to take to their employer to verify how much they make, then type up a recertification to send in during December.  Always something.

Love,
Catherine,
Gerry &
Wendy

1979 Roberta's Letter -Nov.1

[mailed 11/1/79]

Thursday Morning

7:00 A.M.

Dear Family,

Was good to talk to you -- Mother and "Baby" -- oh, I meant to say Mary Virginia.  It was when I was in the middle of cleaning out the storage area . . . so kind of like . . . saved by the bell.  Except I did go back and finish it . . . Buffy didn't finish it while I was on the phone.  The whole problem is that the area needs to be about five times bigger.  We need something like a double garage.

I seem to be doing good this week.  Have made it a whole week without any bee-sting.  I don't think I told you but the one last week was right near my wrist.  It really swelled up -- makes it easy that way to get past the reception girl and into the Doctor's office much, much quicker!!!  Also makes for interesting conversation for those who I came in contact with that are observing!!!  Perhaps I should say it makes for interesting looks as people spot it.  Needless to say I now carry the bee-sting kit with me at all times.  Funny thing about it last week was that I had just gotten them (bought two -- so I'd always have one with me) the night before . . . but hadn't put it in my backpack.  They are not all that big . . . perhaps the size of a double deck of cards.  I'm making myself stay away from trash cans with lots of bees.

And so far it hasn't hurt the can sales any.  Over this last weekend didn't collect any except for those I found while out with Buffy.  But on Monday and Tuesday afternoons Marion met me at school and we both went out for about 20 minutes each.  Tuesday afternoon we took them to BIRP (the recycler) and got $18.86!!!  Not bad!!!  Last Saturday I had a very interesting time at BIRP.  I was in line to sell the cans and a old, old woman -- who could hardly walk came in with a small bag of cans.  She got right in front of me (I would have been the next to have cans weighed) and simply said "I am going in front of you, I have very few."  So I simply said, "Of course go in front of me, thank you for asking so politely."  She had 12 beer cans, two pieces of alum. foil, and a pot pie container.  It couldn't even have added up to one pound -- 23 cents.  Then when I was done having my cans weighed she comes up to me and wants to know if I could carry some newspapers for her to be weighed.  She had asked the boys that work there and they wouldn't do it.  I said yes, and wondered just how many papers she had.  Turned out she had about ten Wall-Street Journals, and about three grocery bags (empty).  What a riot!!!  She was driving a pretty recent Buick!!!

Yesterday's test was really hard.  It consisted of about 12 essay questions.  I didn't even finish the test . . . ran out of time.  We will just have that test, and the final.  Also for part of this class grade we have to put on a special events day on November 17 -- a Saturday.  I'm on the budget committee.  Also will have to help that day with activities.

Marion's science dept at school have got a small computer this year.  Guess one of the men in her dept. thought it would be his own little toy, but over the summer one of the other men took a computer course, and now he is teaching Marion, and three of the other women (total women in the dept.) how to use it.  Not really programming it yet . .. but they are using it in labs.  The kids get to use it and it tells them if their calculations are right or wrong . . . this or that.  Guess the kids really like using it.

Marion and I.T. did not do so good in their selling last week.  Out of 14 wreaths and center-pieces that they had to sell . . . only one sold!!!  And that was for $20 - - not the $40 they had hoped to sell them for.  But, they did have some small things that sold pretty well.  Flower arrangements on big rat traps.  Some small macrames.  Also sold Robert -- remember the stuffed Santa Claus she came home with last year on the plane with -- from her sisters.  He sold for $20!!!  Had to pay $20 for a space -- had to charge tax -- and pay it -- and then the church got 10% commission.  Guess after everything they came out with some $90 profit.  Of course that is before you consider the price of materials etc. to make the stuff.

We had very trick-or-treaters last night.  One group of three from in this area that I knew -- and another group of 7 that --when I asked them if they lived here -- they said no -- but that they had an aunt who lived two blocks away.  The first group -- the group from here I gave them a coupon for a free ice cream cone (one dip) at Baskin-Robbins.  I bought a book of them (20) for $2.00 -- that's not bad -- 10 cents a dip!!  Wanted to be able to give them to the Stubbs, and some other people.  The second group -- with the aunt -- two blocks away.  I had found some small suckers -- they had to be a year old.  They got one each.  Maybe I should have given them my dentist business card with them!!  Alot of Churches and Recreation depts etc, were giving Halloween parties here, and I'm sure that helped  cut down on the callers.  Also the fact that I had the porch light OFF, and that Buffy did alot of good barking . . . .

It has gotten so cold here.  The days of shorts and sandals are over.  Monday I rode my bike to school.  With two sweatshirts, scarf, shoes, socks, the whole bit I was still so cold!!  Went past two of the clock/temperature deals . . . one said 56º the other 54º -- now thats cold.  Marion has been coming by the school in the afternoon to gather cans so I am going to start riding with her or Mici (the lady that lives behind us that works there) -- today I have the Dentist appt.

Alma School -- across the Salt River -- that was flooded last year . . . is having a big bridge built across it.  Thus Alma School is closed off.  Marion has been going either across to Country Club road or down to McClintock . . . which isn't very far from the school. (ASU)  So its really not out of her way to drop me off or pick me up.  It's almost nice to get to school early.  It's like a ghost town . . . no crowds to fight.  Quiet . . . can get alot done!!!

Besides the paper that's due tomorrow . . . I now have three papers assigned.  One is to be on "My Philosophy of Aging."  Thats for the Recreation and the aged class. 

Needless to say, I better get going . . . lots to do.  Will be anxious to hear about the Hortons stay, and what you all have going on . . . sure sounds like Mary Virginia's band is doing great . . . Mary Virginia can you still make as much noise on your instrument without your appendix??

While in Denver Marion got me (under my instructions) a pair of flamolare loafers -- 11 AAA -- for $30 . . . what I looked for that day in Columbus.

Love,

Roberta

1979 Family Letter -Oct.28

Sunday evening
October 28, 1979

Dearest Family -- It was nice hearing from all of you either by phone or letter or both  . . . .

Sorry that I got this letter started on the wrong side of the carbon but hopefully all is okay now - at least  I didn't wait until I got to the bottom of the letter before finding it out.  It was good talking or hearing by letter from all of you / or both in some cases.

Sorry that Gerry has to be hospitalized but hope that puts an end to all the misery he has been having with his back and legs and that the surgery will be most successful if that is necessary.  We will be anxious to hear the results of the milogram.  I would love to be out there to help in any small way that I could -- especially with Wendy if nothing else. 

Do worry about you too Roberta and all the bee stings that you have been having so do keep the kit with you at all times.  Are there so many bees around the campus or is there something in your chemistry that readily attracts them?

Just wanted to tell you, Serena that we picked up Dad's coat and my watch at Haines house yesterday which you so thoughtfully sent home with Mrs. Haines.  I didn't talk to her but Mary Virginia did ever so briefly.  I had to take MV over to Denise Stewart's house to practice as she and Tim Larrick were singing in the Lees Creek United Church of Christ this morning.  They did very well - the interim minister said that it was the first time he had heard "folk music" sung in that church and really appreciated it.  He also closed his sermon with a song "Ten Thousand Angels" which he thought fit in well with his message and especially well with the other songs - Dallas Holm's Calvary and Mary's Song.  As we pulled into the parking lot we tapped the car beside us - not hurting it at all but I know that they knew it happened as they were still sitting in the car yet.  Not recognizing them we spoke and introduced ourselves and learned that it was the new minister and his wife who begin their ministry there next Sunday - Robert Fishers who are now living in Sardinia.  They were having a pot luck dinner after church so we came back to New Vienna, picked up Grandma at church and went to the Windmill and had dinner.  Mary Virginia had been invited to go to Fort Ancient with the Melvin MYF group.  So we visited people in Wilmington until it was time to pick her up afterwards so had a full day.  By the way Darrell Hunter was going to church (Lees Creek) for the first time since his illness.  And he spoke so highly of you Roberta - how you had stopped by so often and cheered him up in your visits there last June.

Last night was the Hallowe'en carnival at the school which was a busy place.  We had supper there and after the parade and judging took Grandma home and then to the Haunted Hall (IOOF building) where the Sr. MYF were holding forth (instead of the church where they have been having decorated the last couple of years.  Carol Wise asked us if we would take Lori as she didn't want to take the twins.  She was really petrified so I didn't see much myself.  Ann Wolfrom took her back up to show her some of them asa they looked without their masks - which made her feel a little better.  Mary Virginia really had a weird get-up on.  Ann Wolfrom had made an over-the-head mask out of papier mache' and no one could guess who she was.  I had never been all through those rooms upstairs over Ginny's Restaurant until last week.  It was nice that they didn't have to work half the night cleaning up afterwards as they had to do before in order to get the church ready for services on Sunday morning.  They made around $300 in just two evenings of being open.

Sorry if we upset your plans, Carol and John.  We had no idea that you were planning on coming on Saturday instead of Wednesday and Thursday.  We haven't asked the Bains but have been wondering if they might like to come for Thanksgiving too - that is if you will also be here.  Her aunt Eleanor would also be welcome.  The only person we have invited is Mrs. Matthews.  Neither of the McCoys are able to come.  Did we tell you that they are now right next to Mrs. Matthews at Extended Care? Mrs. McCoy doesn't seem to know anyone or say anything which is hard on him.  He has also failed quite a bit just in the last month.  To backtrack to Thanksgiving - we would like to have you come and be here Thanksgiving with us and later in the weekend too if that is possible.  We had thought we'd combine taking Grandma to the Cincinnati airport and then going on to see Serena but that may be too much as Mrs. Pauline Simkins is also planning on going to Florida at the same time.  So perhaps they would leave later in the next week.  Do let us hear though what your definite plans are and hope that we haven't upset them too much.

Dad and Harold Thornburg spoke at the last New Vienna Republican Women's Club Meeting last Tuesday night when I had the program and had been asked to have them speak on the office of central committeemen.  We didn't get to go square dancing but hope to go back this next week.  We had thought that the Hortons would be here and that we would miss this one too but guess that they won't be arriving until Wednesday or Thursday.  Then Aunt Mary mentioned on her card to Dad that they have to be back in Lake Worth Sunday PM so guess that they will be leaving Saturday at the latest.

Thank you all for your birthday greetings, as someone remarked it's a lot better to have birthdays than to consider the alternative.  The last Saturday of the month the men have a prayer breakfast at the Church, then in the afternoon did get the yard cleaned up.  That is more relaxing that going to Atlanta and back in one day and hearing how our competitors are selling things cheaper than us, but that story is as old as the hills.

Carol and John -- how did your leaf raking go yesterday?  We suppose that Granville has leaf pick up.  The politicians were busy in NV Saturday putting up signs all over town . . .Vote for Jim Curits OR Vote for Larry Akers for Mayor.  The Akers forces even had some fans sporting badges at the Carnival.  There are an awful lot of signs -- political that is, in Wilmington.

Mary Virginia has met all the Stewart family now and said that Debbie would like to have Serena's address which she keeps forgetting to give to her.  MV couldn't realize that there is another family with a bigger age spread than her own.  Dennis Stewart is 32 and is basketball coach at Circleville.

Poor Dad didn't really have a birthday dinner at all.  He had requested "thickened milk" which we had for lunch yesterday and I had thought that we would have his celebration today but with MV gone and only three of us he suggested that we eat out so he didn't have to twist my arm too far for that.

Not sure of the details, but Larry Martin was chopping some wood recently and the wedge flew out and hit his leg and he has been laid up since.  Today was the "Run" sponsored by the Y.  The Clinton Co. Bank had 15 entrants, including two from the NV office . . . they all had the pro shirts with their name too -- real class.

We didn't see him today but while at Quaker Apts. we asked about Leroy Atchinson (of old News-Journal fame) -- and they said he was fine.  Sixty Minutes had an interesting skit on the bulk of the Sunday paper and the value of all those ads . . . the Cincinnati Enquirer was one paper that they took apart -- ahh, what memories . . . of those newspaper days.

Elizabeth Johnson moved last Thursday to Wilmington -- 756 Xenia Ave.  --just two houses from her sister. 

[Love, etc.]

1979 Catherine's Letter -Oct.27

Saturday, October 27, 1979

Dear Mother, Dad, and Mary,

Hi!  Well, I just finished the first five inspections and I'm a half hour ahead of schedule so I figured I better take a little break.  Wendy fell asleep shortly after I finished talking to you.  I think she is coming down with a cold -- she didn't sleep too well last night which is probably why she is sleeping now.

We bought Wendy a new pair of shoes at Kinney's in Bend on the day that Gerry went to the Dr.  They are real cute - brown leather with brown suede trim.  She seems to like them.  Her last pair which were new just before we came to Ohio were really worn -- holes in the ends and everything.  She waded through many mud puddles with them on and then she drags her feet sometimes when she is riding her chicken which didn't help them either.  I had ordered her a pair of boots through Sears and we also got her a pair of slippers so her feet are well dressed now.

This form that I am writing on [tenant certification for low income subsidy] has been revised so I have a bunch of extras.  About two days after I got the revised forms from Chambers, Farmers Home sent me about 200 of the old forms which doesn't make much sense.  Maybe they were trying to get rid of their supply of old forms.

We have one apartment changing hands next week.  The present tenant's sister is going to move in.  That is the only change that I know of right now.  Sometimes they don't let us know until the lat minute though.  I mowed about three-quarters of the lawn yesterday in five hours.  The other ¼ I had done earlier in the week in about 2 hours so it could all be done in one day.  There is quite a bit of trim to be done with the weed-eater around the buildings, pipes, sprinklers and other things that stick up out of the grass.  We will do that tomorrow if it is a decent day.  It ha been rainy and cloudy for the past couple of weeks but we are in hopes we will have a couple more weeks of sunshine before it gets too cold.

Well, it is almost time to start up with the inspections again.  so far I have only found a few minor things that need fixed - closet door to be adjusted and one lock fell off the window so I'll have to take the window out and fix it back up -- both of those are fairly common problems and don't take much work to remedy.

Love,

Catherine, Gerry & Wendy

1979 Roberta's Letter to GHU -Oct.28

Sunday Evening

[10-28-79]

Hi Grandma!

Happy Halloween!  And I understand you will have the Hortons in time for trick-or-treat!  Do you have "home-grown" goodies for them?  Bet Mom & Dad will have some ice-cream for them!  Wish I could be there to partake!

Our church here has a Tongan lady (near - or in the South Pacific Islands -- I think!) who is going back there to start a church.  In 3 services they were hoping to raise 25 thousand dollars -- TODAY!!! WOW! I'll be anxious to see  how much was raised!  For awhile it sounded like 1 of those T.V. shows asking for money!

Marion is away for the weekend.  Yesterday I had Buffy to the Groomers -- & it sure has kept me busy trying to keep him clean!!

Please tell Uncle Bill that I hope his Buick lasts as long as yours did.  When it gets too old for him I'll be glad to step in -- oops -- I forgot the old -- was it a '62 Ford?

Hi to all --

Love,

Roberta

1969 Catherine's Letter -Oct.26

26 October 1969

Münster

Dear Mother and Daddy,

Hi!  Although I really enjoyed Berlin it was good to get back here again last night.  What was especially nice -- I found 11 letters and a post card and I'd heard from you the day before I left Berlin.  I've been scribbling away madly all morning trying to get them answered.

Dad, was this the first birthday you've spent on the east side of the Atlantic Ocean?  That puts you one ahead of me.

Getting your second letter in Berlin really made me wish I had decided to come down and meet you.  But my decision had been made and although I was very tempted by your persuasive arguments I refused to be swayed.  There are too many other things one can do with $200.  If I had been able to pay for it myself I would have come.  Also I'm back to working as hard as possible on my German.  I think I am slowly improving.  At least things are somewhat encouraging.  Since we got back from Berlin, Ann and I are speaking only German to each other.  That's helping alot.  I'm also spending some time every day on grammar.  I want to be able to write my art paper in German but it is due before Christmas and i'm not sure if I'll be ready.

I have had pumpernickel bread but I didn't realize Münster was famous for it.  I like it because it has kind of a crunchy taste.  There are lots of bakeries around where good stuff can be bought cheaply and also lots of carnival type counters which sell Bratwurst and Pommes Frittes (Fr.fries).  However, since I get three quite adequate meals here every day I haven't spent too much money on food.

I haven't been able to get overly excited about taking pictures yet.  That is partly because everyone else is always running madly about snapping pictures of everything imaginable so they will have something to show what they saw in Europe.  I'm more interested in how it affects me rather than how it looks.

I seem to have lost the hitch-hiking permission slip already.  So when you get home could you write another and send it to Dr. Stavig in Kalamazoo instead of me.  I'm sorry I didn't make that clear.

Remember Mike?  We took him to the airport in Chicago.  He has invited me to his graduation this coming June.  I'm not sure if a trip to Colorado would be feasible then or not.  But I'll give it serious consideration.

It's getting late so I'd better be signing off.  My love to all!

And more love,

Catherine

1989 MV's Letter -Oct.25

[10/25/89?]

Dear Mom and Dad --

Happy Birthday, Dad!  What are you doing to celebrate?  A bike ride and    ?   

I don't think I told you about composition last week.  I took in a trumpet descant to turn in and Albin (professor) liked it so well that he sent it off to some publisher.  He said if they like it I could make $25-$30.  I guess that's how you get your foot in the door.  That's what he says.

Well, last night I had another date with Don Crowson (remember the handicapped guy that came last Thanksgiving?).  We had a nice time.  He'll probably be the only one that will come home with me (or join us in Lexington, as the case may be).  Everyone else seems to have plans.  Diane & Kevin are spending the week in Michigan.

I sent off letters today for the walk this weekend.  I didn't know any of the pilgrims but I wrote several on the team.  I wish I could be there for Dad's birthday and candlelight.  I'm sponsoring my roommate and another girl in the dorm this weekend in Lexington.  My talk is Sunday @ 11AM.

It was nice to get all the clothes from Roberta and actually be able to pull out something that fits.  As of last week, the total was 29½ lbs. on W.W.  I'll probably weigh in again tomorrow morning.

I only had one mid-term, which was in Old Testament.  I felt like I did fairly well but we haven't gotten back the test yet.

I think that about covers everything.  I'll write after the walk next week -- hopefully I'll also have something as far as job updates.  Please tell Grandma I said hello.

Love, 

Mary Va.

1989 HH & Jean's notes to John -late Oct.

From Jean:

Dearest John --

Jut a note to say "hi!" & wish we could be seeing you in person too but looking forward to having / seeing you on Sunday, Nov. 5th. 

Got a letter from MV today saying her composition teacher had sent some of her music in to be looked at by publisher - he liked it so well.  Could be $25-30 in it if so.

Also that she has lost 29½ pounds since she's been on Weight Watchers. 

We've enjoyed having Pat and Bob Ballantyne with us & glad they wanted to take the time to meet you  - "the nearest of our children."

MV is to have the boy she had home for Thanksgiving last year -- the one that was handicapped.  Do hope that you & Mark are able to come to Lexington.

Much love &

more later,

Dad & Mother

From HH:

We have a new planter wall in front of the house, as the old one fell over after 33 years.

Bob Lundquist has retired (?) from the bank.

Do hope your cold is better -- do recall the adage that an oz. of prevention is worth a # of cure.

See you soon.

Love,

Dad & Mother

1979 Catherine to GHU -Oct.22

Monday, October 22, 1979

Dear Grandma,

Hi!  I'm sorry it has taken me so long to get this letter off to you.  Things have been very hectic for us lately and my mind has not been on letter writing.  However, I did want to thank you for the birthday card and to tell you how much we appreciated the money that you sent.  We were able to get Wendy some nice clothes with the $20.  We bought her a jogging suit and two pairs of pants and a shirt to go with them.  The pants are still too big - the size 3's seem to be too big but the 2's are too small so we decided to get the three's and roll the pants legs up for awhile.

We have had some real fall weather the last week after the first part of October being very summer-like.  Today it is cloudy and very windy, temperature is around 45º and there is an occasional sprinkle.   I still have some outside work I need to take care of before winter sets in so I hope we have a few more nice days.  Wendy still enjoys playing outside for as much of the day as I will let her but she is wearing her winter jacket now.

Gerry is to go to the Dr. tomorrow about his back.  It just seems to be getting worse and worse.  Today he could hardly move when he got up.  He is the type that likes to do everything for himself so it will be hard on him if he has to be laid up for awhile.  He is hoping that the Dr. will be able to get him into the hospital soon for the tests to find out what is wrong.

Wendy is watching out the window right now for Daddy to come home home for lunch - it is still 20 minutes to go but I need to get some sausage fried and mix up some pancake batter.

Please accept my apologies for not writing sooner and thanks again for what you sent Wendy.

Love,

Catherine, Gerry & Wendy

1979 Family Letter -Oct.22

Sunday evening -

October 22, 1979

Dearest Family:

Seems like a long time ago since we last wrote but guess just so many miles have been traveled that it seems long.  We did get to Chicago to see Serena Wednesday evening.  We took the old faithful (?) Mercury as it would hold more and not hurt if it got scratched up a little.  We got there about 6:30 so avoided the rush hour traffic.  Serena has a real nice place not far from Loyola University and about a couple of blocks from the EL where she takes the train to work.  She is on the fourth floor - about 46 steps which Dad traveled many times but luckily there is a back entrance just off the street which made it handier.  She has an entrance way into a large combination living-bedroom probably better called a studio with a dressing room, bath and kitchen and one end of it is divided where she can have a large dinette.  It is a quiet apartment as it is off a sort of court -- not facing the busy street behind her.  Across the back is also a Catholic elementary school (either middle or junior high really) which would add to the noise on that side.

We drove out to see Northwestern in Evanston just beyond where she lives after walking around Loyola.  Then took the el downtown and had lunch with her in the same building where she is now working - for an insurance company.  Dad went on to the courthouse to check on the latest in bankruptcy news on Chemtoy and I did a little looking in the shops and met him at Marshall Field.  We met Serena and Debbie Haines for dinner - went to a Greek restaurant in Evanston.  We took Debbie back home and got to see her apartment - where Serena lived until she found her own place.  Debbie has it fixed up nicely with alot of plants but many disadvantages to her place over Serena's as far as we were concerned - on a noisy street (but there is a bus stop almost in front of her door - Debbie has to take a couple of busses and a train to get to work) but each one is pleased with their own arrangements so guess that is what matters.

After leaving Debbie's we drove down to Steve Weiss'es address and guess were lucky to find him as he had moved to another apartment in the same big building.  He seemed surprised to see us.  John had written that if we could bring him (Steve) home or take him back to Chicago it would be appreciated.  But we were leaving before he could go on Friday and he had made arrangements to rent a car to drive to Ohio.  Seems odd that there are only nine in his graduate (?) school class but evidently approved by Denison.  The big news with him was that he had given up ideas of working for the railroad and was thinking about going into banking perhaps in Ohio or he might go back and go into business with is father.  He hoped to make up his mind after seeing John and Carol. (and talking with them too.)

Serena got her telephone installed Friday morning and her number is . . . so it is nice knowing that we will be able to call her now and vice versa.  The fellow who did the installation work was real nice and coincidentally he was leaving the same evening for Ohio to visit his sister and he had gotten married August 24th.  He also helped Dad in the door of the building with a table and would have liked to help him more but said it was really against company rules.

We had signed up for a class at Scarlet Oaks on Friday evening, Oct. 20 a couple of months ago so came home that way (Cincinnati).  We were going to be rather late for class but thought that better than not at all and found out that the class had been cancelled that night and we hadn't gotten word about that.  Needless to say we hadn't or we would have had a more leisurely trip back - stayed longer with Serena or a number of other things - eaten a little more deluxe dinner, etc. as we had planned to pick up Mary Virginia after the football game and sock hop at East Clinton at 11:30 so we got home in time to relax a little before driving over to Lees Creek.

Saturday was a beautiful day as today also has been.  The band was taking part in a competition at Glen Este - suburb of Cincinnati.  It won first place in both the band and the auxiliary if you are like me and didn't know is the drill team, rifle unit and field commander (if female) or drum major (if male).

Appreciated getting letters from all of you - two from Catherine (on Monday and Saturday) and an extra thick one from Roberta with her test and some other papers and one from John besides.  Thanks too for the pictures, Catherine.  The ones we sent to you all are to keep - John had them made in Newark.  We too are looking forward to seeing the wedding pictures taken by the more professional photographer.

I forgot to mention that since Mary Virginia rode back on the band bus we stopped by to see the Sankers and they had dinner just ready so ate with them.  Hope that they didn't have other plans for the evening but we left about 8PM.  Lowell is going to UC and plans to go back to ASU (?) hopefully as soon as his exams are over here.  He has bought and fixed up a Microbus to drive out there.  Bruce has a Volkswagen Bug which he is working on Bill has about three cars on which he is currently working.  We were surprised to learn that GE has plans to open a factory in Singapore and they had a been looking into the possibility of going there but after Jeanne read about all the humidity, etc. Bill quickly lost interest.  It would be for three years too which they thought too long a period to be gone.

They kept raving about what a nice wedding John and Carol had and were glad to get to talk to Roberta on the way to Cleveland and appreciated hearing from her afterwards.  I had a copy of the picture of them at the wedding but hadn't taken it with me as I hadn't thought we'd be stopping by there.

I started this letter while the Sr. MYF met here this evening.  Mary Virginia seemed to think we'd have about four here but had a good turnout because they wanted to decide whether to have the Haunted Hall.  They aren't going to use the church this year but may use the IOOF if enough turn out tomorrow night to work on it.  There were the three advisors + (Harold and Carolyn Thornburg, Ron Salisbury Jody Rankin, Kelly Grooms, Clara and Peg Sears, Danny Stricker) and the following yout: Kay Wolfrom, Melodee and Jerri Mahanes, Cindy Hannah, Judy Henderson, Billy Mahanes, Judy Smedley, Bill Hildebrant and MV.)  The latter was elected president tonight too.  I had planned to have cider and donuts and when I wasn't sure how many might be here decided to have potato and corn chips in place of donuts.  Also had three kinds of dip to go with it and sesame sticks and peanuts and cashews - plenty salty so all the cider was finished up.  I'd bought two gallons and had planned to freeze some if we had too much left over but there was only about a cup.

I don't know who didn't get the 2nd page of the letter last week but found an extra sheet so will send it on if I found out who was shortsheeted.  I thought it was Roberta for mailed her letter after the others but Dad did check and said that hers had bout pages.  Didn't send on to Serena as we were going up to see her so it had to be either the Morgans or the Newark Uibles.

Today was Rally Day at Sunday School - didn't have too many extra out but Marcia Pogue (Meddock)     ?      and her little girl were there and asking about you Roberta.  She had a blouse on exactly like my cranberry & white.  There was a pot luck after church and forgot to tell you that MV sang in church - How Great Thou Art and was great.  She has also been asked to sing for the Mother-Daughter Banquet of the united Methodist Women (N.V.) and she and Tim Larrick are to sing for the Lees Creek Church next Sunday and also for Mrs. Larrick's Christmas party of their church women.  Do you all think you could make arrangements for her western tour this winter to help defray our expenses?  We are undecided on our Christmas plans but open to any suggestions.  We would like to get to both Arizona and Oregon but hard to combine them with Roberta if she has only a week as four days would be spent in traveling if we go by car.  We know that it is a good time for her to be getting in some extra time in her field work.  Serena doesn't think she would be able to go so would stop in Chicago on the way (at least one way).  Didn't have too long in Chicago with her last week but thinking perhaps we might go after Thanksgiving (that Friday when we take G'ma to airport if she goes on previous schedule). But what are your plans Serena?  We don't want to intrude there.  Hopefully we could get the John Hancock apartment.  We are looking forward to having John and Carol for Thanksgiving (and longer) but don't think John has but the Thursday off.

Really hadn't planned for this letter to be so long when I began but have gotten carried away.

Mary Virginia's Christmas vacation begins Friday afternoon, Dec. 21 and school begins again Jan. 3 (Thursday).  She says that she would like to be in Mesa at least one Sunday and Wednesday to see her church friends.  I wonder if the Garretts will be gone over the holidays.  Also her Bible study teacher.  If it rushes things too much to try to get up to Madras in a week, Roberta, you might prefer to go another time and we could use that week away from Mesa but not as far as Oregon.  How about ideas from the rest of you.  Wish that we could talk Serena into going west with us.  What we need is a private plane to get every place quickly.

Dad and Howard Wolfrom are flying down to North Carolina today to see Fli-Back as they are interested in selling their ball equipment machines, etc.  They fly to Atlanta and then up to N.C. but can fly directly home (Cincy) from there.  Friday Dad flies back to Atlanta for the day to go to the show where we met you Roberta and Cris about six years ago or five.  I remember that the Mercury was new and John hadn't been driving too long.  And Dad celebrated his birthday at our first trip to a Ferrells.  Looks like we will be celebrating this year by going to the Halloween carnival at the school.

There is something every weekend from now til Christmas and I am sure that your schedules are getting just as hectic.  Monday evening we are getting together at the church to work on craft things to sell at the Bazaar. (Dec. 1)  We are still going to the western dancing lessons each Tuesday at Laurel Oaks but this coming Tuesday none of the four couples that have been dancing together are able to go.  So at least we will all be missing the same time.  We had thought we would miss the next one too but Joe called Grandma yesterday and said they plan to get to New Vienna either Oct. 31 or Nov. 1.  He has had a terrible cold since he has been home but beginning to feel better now.  They leave this Thursday for Marianne's pick up Cris in North Carolina.  Rob may fly up for the weekend (this was mentioned by Aunt Mary several weeks ago but he now has another girlfriend so plans may have changed).  Also Rob is growing a mustache.  Joe won't get to see too much of the country except his relatives again unless he takes a day or so off and goes on his own from Mariannes but Aunt Mary says that he just can't wait to see his nephews.  This no doubt may be true but wonder if he wants to spend so much time each year doing the same things.  I know he loves visiting art museums and just an hour or so in Washington on the way back to Florida last year.

Meant to tell you Serena that we met Ella Hart Guard's aunt while we were working at the chili supper and she said that they are getting tired of being so far away from home in Tucson.  Ella resembles her aunt, Mrs. Goodman in her facial expressions.  Mrs. Goodman has two in the band I think she said.  Have seen her a couple of times since - an attractive red haired person.

Forgot to mention or answer your question Roberta that the Pratts are still dancing as well as Elaine Biehl and her husband who are expecting in March. He works at the same place as Neal Pratt.  -- Cin. Milacron.  another couple is from Sabina - she works in the CCNB&T Sabina branch - Oraline and George Woodruff.  I have an awful time remembering her name especially after hearing Tom Brumley refer to her as "Ovaltine".  A young couple from Sabina also go - the Beams - cousins of the Marvin Beams.  The Robert Terrells were going and really enjoying it but he fell of the roof of his barn and luckily wasn't too badly hurt but quite shaken so they have missed the last two lessons.

Judy Henderson told me last night that Nancy is doing most of the cooking since Ruby has been sick - was in the hospital with phlebitis (don't know where to look in the dictionary for the correct spelling).  She is home now but not allowed on her feet much.  Nancy has had a rough fall with her mother's death and her sister-in-law sick.

Really enjoy hearing from you ALL.  With much love,

Dad & Mother

1969 Catherine's Letter -Oct.21

Berlin

21 October 1969

Dear Mother and Daddy,

Hi!  I was really glad to get your letter yesterday although it makes me regret I'm not coming down to see you.  Good luck getting around with your knowledge of Spanish.  If you see Cal Johnson running around in Madrid tell him hello for me!

It was nice of Greg to send you all a post card.  It doesn't do much for my ego though as I haven't heard from him.

We've seen alot of Berlin.  We got a four hour guided tour by bus which showed alot of the major points but it's about equal to seeing a movie as far as really absorbing anything.  But since then I've spent a little more time places.  The zoo has been my favorite, although I went to an art museum.  The art museum was quite disappointing as we went as a group and Dr. Spaltmann, who knows a fantastic lot about art, went with us.  There were just too many of us though.

Today I saw all the tourist attractions in East Berlin.  About the most interesting part was going through the checkpoint.

22 October
Good morning!  Here's another day beginning in Berlin as I suppose it is elsewhere.  It gets quite cold here at night although so far it's been warm around noon.  We're so far North that the sun is never directly overhead.  And it gets pretty low around 3:00 in the afternoon.

Tomorrow night I'm going with a bunch of other kids to see the Bolschoi Ballett Moskaw.  They are performing Tschaikowsky's "der Nußknacker" (Hope you are capable of translating that.)

This place we are staying is like a palace.  It was the home of Mendelsohn's brother who must have had quite a fortune.  There are about 7 floors and 4 different wings.  A chapel, ball room, now there is a restaurant and dining rooms on every floor.  We have all our dishes on this floor and then two people get a cart of food from the kitchen and bring it up on the elevator.  There are also showers with real hot water!

I'm eating my fill of fresh fruit this week and skipping butter as much as possible so I'll have to readjust when I get back to Münster.  I'll be glad to get back.  I hope I haven't forgotten too much German this week.  I guess I have been asking directions and such in German.  We met 3 Canadian girls yesterday who understood no German at all.  They were having a little difficulty getting around.

Later

This morning I went to the aquarium.  It's supposed to be one of the best in the world  All the fish were on the entry floor, reptiles, crocodiles, alligators, etc. on the 1st floor and then the insects on the next floor.  I liked the croc & alligators the best.

Then this afternoon a couple of us went to Dahlem Museum which had all sorts of old religious paintings and sculptures.  I liked the wood carvings.

Mother, have you gotten Serena a book bag yet?  There are some really nice ones here.

We're going out on the town tonight so I better get ready.  Write soon!

Love, 

Catherine

1979 Roberta's Letter -Oct.21

Sunday 10:00 A.M.

[10-21-79]

Dear Family,

Seems like this has sure been an exciting week.  I mentioned in last weeks letter all the excitement about the coach being fired at ASU -- he was fired over a lawsuit where some player last year is accusing him of hitting him in the face . . . hasn't even gotten to court yet, but the head of Athletics at school fired him.  So this week there has been all kinds of press conferences, and about 10 people have had their lives threatened people like the president of the college, the guy that did the firing, the other coaches -- all who are taking sides as to who is right.  So there has been alot of security on campus -- alot of protestors, etc.

Did you all go to Chicago this weekend?  Bet it was cold there.  Here it is just in the high 80's today . . . . the coolest weather so far this fall.  Last night we went with Dorothy and Cris Stubbs to see a play in the Mesa Theater YOU CAN'T TAKE IT WITH YOU.  Was quite good and very funny.  Only charged $2.00 which sure beats the prices that they are charging at Grady Gammage this year.  Cheapest seats there are $12.00 . . .

What is Serena doing now in Chicago  Does she seem to like the city???  Is her apartment in a large apartment type complex or what??

Your weekly letter came on Thursday, which seems like really good service compared to other letters in getting here.  Also got a letter from Catherine the same day.  Seems like she sure keeps busy.  Poor Gerry with his back.  Wayne Wiget sure looked over-healthy (well-fed) in the picture of the Wigets.  There was no mention in the article about David . . . have you all heard anything about him . . . wonder if he did have the operation.

Yesterday morning I spent the morning at school at a conference that the Council of Aging put on.  I talked to several people, including one man who told me he lived in Florida for 42 years.  I asked him where.  And he said that his wife would have told me near Palm Beach, but he always said near West Palm Beach.  I then asked him exactly where . . . and he had lived in Lake Worth.  He knew Mr. Garnett.  I went to a workshop on developing oral histories.  Was very well done.  The deal was both on Friday and Saturday morning.  I went to both parts.  Everything but the $10 supper on Friday.  Met lots of people.  Getting my name and face around as to making connections.  I even gave up my can route on Friday so I could attend all the afternoon programs.  I had classes till 1:00 and the program was to start at 1:00 on the other side of the campus, so I had asked the prof. the class before that I would like to leave early, so I could get there on time.

I had alot of excitement myself on Wednesday.  I'm not sure if I told you but about a month ago I had a bee sting, which caused some swelling . . . it was on my finger.  It bothered me for a few days, but nothing all that bad.  Well, on Wednesday I got another, this time on my arm . . . near the elbow.  I was at school and had just started on my walk gathering cans.  It was about 3:00.  To make a long story short, it swelled all up, like about twice the size of my arm.  (it doubled in size) I felt pretty sick, and found my way to the health clinic.  They took me right in, and got me in to see one of the doctors.  Which they say usually takes hours.  He gave me a shot, some pills to take.  While I was there I mentioned to the Doctor about the corn on my foot.  And he removed it.  Really would not have hurt at all except toward the end I moved my foot and he hit some live skin, instead of just the dead skin on the corn.  I'm glad to have the corn removed.  But, I'm still not sure what possessed me to mention it to the Doctor.

Anyway, the Doctor stressed how each bee sting would be worse.  How I needed to get a bee-sting kit, and be able to give myself a shot, should I get another bee-sting.  The pharmacy at the school (where each prescription is only $1 !!!) did not have the kits.  I've tried several places, and finally had a drug store near here order me two kits, and they will be in on Monday.  This shot the Doctor gave me put me right out.  I slept at the clinic for about an hour.  Then came home, went to bed, and slept till the next morning.  And all day on Thursday I slept off and on.  My arm now looks almost normal.

Needless to say . . . between Wednesday's excitement and not doing my usual on Friday can money was down yesterday when we took the cans.  Only $13.40 . . . usually on Saturday it's just over $18.  We are still taking them twice a week.  Saturday is usually the bigger day than Tuesday.  On Wednesday when I went to the health clinic, I took the cans to my bike first.

I'm just glad that the bee sting didn't happen this week when I have lots going.  On Wednesday and Friday I have a test (given in the two days) for one class, and then on next Monday and next Wednesday I have a test for another class.  Can't understand these teachers waiting so long that a test can't be given all in one day.  Both tests will be the first given in both classes.  Tho did have a small quiz type in the one class, which I got a B on.  In both of these classes there will just be these two exams, and then the final one.  Intend to do really good on both of these coming up.

Marion is going to Denver this Wednesday through Sunday.  She has been busy making up pine-cone wreaths . . . has 8 made up now.  She and I.T. plan to sell them in a rich parish sale this coming Friday.  Oh, I.T. has finished floral school (was four weeks long) and is now working for a florist in Denver.  Guess she really likes it.

We went over to the new mall on Friday night, to eat and just look around.  There is an area called the pantry.  It consists of about 10 eating places -- all the kind you stand in line, and then all share a common eating area.  Marion had a quarter pound hot dog.  I got in a line at a place called Tater Junction . . . where you get a whole baked potato, and some kind of sauce.  It took more than 20 minutes.  I should have gotten out of the line in the very beginning.  Seems like they could only come up with 8 hot potatoes a time . . . out of two giant ovens.  Conventional . . . not microwave.  I had mushroom and cream one.  Think next time I'd try something else.  Was mostly just sour cream, and very few mushrooms.

My I see now just how crooked I have this paper in.  Think that I'll do some studying and then come back and finish this letter . . . .

Mary Virginia, thanks for your recent letter.  We were both pleasantly surprised to hear from you.  Sounds like you have really been busy.  Anytime you would like to tape any of your music feel free to do so and then send this way.  I could learn to sing along with you, and then when you come out we could be doing some duets.  Oh, I might be taking a music therapy class next semester.  I've been told that I should either take the music or dance therapy class, that either would be good in working w/ elderly.  Both are suppose to be up and coming fields.  Perhaps Mary Virginia would be especially interested in the music therapy field.

Last night for the play I wore my orange pants suit . . . the one that I wore for the wedding.  Everyone liked it of course.  Did I tell you that I did have the blue one done up so now it fits quite properly.  Cost $8 -- so still a very reasonable priced outfit.  Just now beginning to be cool enough to wear jackets and the like.

Yesterday afternoon I took out the one ear-ring that I still had -- matches the one that I lost.  I'm having a jeweler make a stick pin out of it.  Should be quite nice, just the right size for such a thing.  Oh, I only had the pants fixed, not the suit jacket . . . on the blue suit.

When are the Hortons coming?  Wish they could stop here on their way to New Vienna, but realize that it is out of the way.

I am enclosing some info which you all might find interesting.  I just can't type too fast !!!  Of course, I came home yesterday with a full pack.  I took my yellow back-pack and several older people asked me where I got it.  They they really liked it . . . for their grand-children.  I told them that my Grandma got me it.  But I had seen them in bright colors at . . . here in the alley.

I have made an appointment at a dentist near the school that is suppose to be very good, plus offers a student discount of 20%.  Appointment is not until the 1st day of November.  After all my tests are over . . . which works out fine.

Better get going.  Hope you all are not too cold.  I have started wearing long jeans and sweatshirt jacket everyday.  Jacket only in the morning.

Love,

 Berta 

1969 Catherine's Letter -Oct.17

Münster

October 17, 1969

Dear Mother, Dad, Serena, John, Mary,

Hi!  In nine hours we get on the bus for Berlin.  That leaves me a half hour to write this, 7 hours to sleep and 1½ hours to get up, eat, & catch the bus downtown.  Wow!  What a disciplined life I lead.

There is a chance we may go on a 5 day trip to Moscow next month.  Sounds neat, huh?  The school may not give us permission but if they do and if the American Embassy does, then I also need your permission for me to go to a Communist country.  Please send it to Dr. Stavig.

I haven't been doing much this week except reading the biography of Beethoven in German, studying grammar, and going to school.  I think maybe I am learning something but it doesn't make for extremely interesting subject matter in a letter.  I'm determined that before I leave here I will be able to pick up something and read it without wondering what every third word means.  It is very depressing.

We're going to stay at a place in Berlin run by some religious group.  (Similar to Youth Hostel where we do part of the work.)  We get a bed, 3 meals a day, and all the hot showers we want for about 12 marks a day.  It's going to be nice to have a week off from school too.

Dad, have a happy birthday wherever you happen to be on the 27.  John, here are some more stamps.

Please send the permission to Stavig as soon as possible.

Love,

Catherine

1979 Catherine's Letter -Oct.16

Tuesday, October 16, 1979

Dear Mom, Dad and Mary,

Hi!  Things have calmed down somewhat for us so it look like I'll be able to get a letter off to you this week.  I did have one move out yesterday but one at a time isn't hard to handle.  It has also been a little colder and cloudy out this week so there isn't as much to be done outdoors.

I had my third (of five) golf lessons this afternoon.  How much of what I am learning I will be able to retain over the winter is the question.  I'm sure it can't hurt me though and I have learned a few things I ought to be able to remember.  Hope the weather stays decent for the next few weeks so we'll be able to finish the lessons and perhaps Gerry and I can plan some on the weekend.

Tomorrow morning is my bowling league.  Our team name is the "Low Scorers" so you can see how well we are doing.  Last week we were beat three straight games by the last place team - we were 3rd from the bottom but that probably put us on the bottom.  I'm doing OK though.  I have raised my average every week - starting out at 71 and now I'm up to 92.  Every week it is a little harder to raise it though since the average is based on all the games played this year.  I'd like to get it over a 100 though.  Last week I had a 95, 109, and 114.  Gerry isn't doing nearly as well with his bowling as he used to bowl but it is because he has so much pain it is all he can do to bend over to throw the ball.  One more week and then he'll find out what the Dr. has to say - although I don't think he can say too much until Gerry has the milogram.

Wendy has been doing better going to the babysitters.  She still screams and carries on when I leave but she settles down better afterwards.  Tomorrow morning she is going to a new one - the grandmother of one of her friends.  The grandmother babysits her granddaughter four days a week and is thinking of adding to her clientele.  It will be a strange house for Wendy but there will be someone there that she knows anyway.  Then in the afternoon I am getting a new permanent and Wendy is going to stay with Susie Coe as I babysat Gabe while Susie got a permanent last month.

We went to the Elks last Saturday night as they had a shrimp and crab dinner.  That sure was good.  They had a dance afterwards but we didn't stay too long as Gerry was kind of tired after working all day.  We're going to go again this Saturday night as they are having an Octoberfest and the German wife of one of the members is cooking up a good German meal.  We've heard she does a good job so we are looking forward to it.  Our Saturday night babysitter is a 14-year-old who brings her 12-year-old sister with her.  They seem to do real well together so we figure we're getting two for the price of one.

We are anxious to see who wins the World Series tomorrow although we are both rooting for Pittsburgh.  Some of these games have last so long we are thankful we see them three hours sooner here so we don't have to stay up all night to watch.

Well, Hope you had a good trip to and from Chicago.

Love,

Catherine, Gerry & Wendy

1989 Family Letter -Oct.15

Sunday, October 15, 1989

Dear Family:

We have just returned home from the Church Pot Luck Dinner honoring the Sunday School teachers.  Nice turn out.  Mother looked nice in her new pink dress and hat and received several compliments.  Roberta was certainly a big big (want to emphasize big) help with Grandma while she was here, which included the shopping "trips." 

We were all proud of Mary Virginia last Sunday, it was a wonderful experience for all of us.  The video pictures of the program and the reception turned out great.

Having Indian summer weather here this weekend - up in the eighties and a full harvest moon.  Wendell Mahanes -- finally -- got here to replace our chimney top as the brick were flaking off.

Our TWA tickets for Phoenix are here for Grandma and us, we leave 12/13 and arrive in Phoenix at 5:56 P.M.  The return is on 1/11 at 12:54 P.M.  It would be nice if the Hortons could join us in Phoenix during part of the time, as I understand that seeing Joe would be an extra bonus for them and us.

it seems really quiet without Serena, Roberta and the Hortons - we are down to two again but are looking forward to having Bob and Pat Ballantyne next week around the 24-25th.  We enjoyed our trip to Yellow Springs and thought they might enjoy seeing that among other things.  It is full of little shops and had lunch with Lisa Gooding at an organic type restaurant but better check with them first about that.

Got a nice note from Wendy Saturday so I will be writing to her individually in a few days.  Roberta, we haven't found the tape you found missing but hope that it turns up either here or Phoenix.

The weather here is gorgeous!!  Way up toward 80º - Put the hanging plants outdoors that I was afraid would get frosted over two weeks ago.  Our first broccoli is about ready to eat - the first we planted turned out to be cabbage so Dad was finally able to find more but didn't think it would be edible before frost.

Dad is at the piano practicing on his Christmas pieces - "I'll be Home for Christmas" and others which should put me in the mood early.  Any special requests should come in soon for we are limited on what we are able to carry to Arizona.  I've gotten a very few things but its not too late; otherwise we may shop after Christmas.

[End of group letter, remainder is written to John.]

It was nice of you to call Roberta before she left last Friday.  Sorry that your rush to get back to Newark was in vane.  We are still laughing about Gina's lunch that day.  We took her shopping Wednesday in Wilmington and she bought a coat and 3 dresses.  Had lunch with Ruth Shoemaker too.  Then when G'ma got home mentioned that now she needed a hat.  So Thursday we went to the Dayton Mall where she got one.  Think Roberta told you that we ate at the Brown Derby where she had a BIG lunch taking alot home with her.  Roberta ended up freezing enough from the four days to make seven meals for her.

 We'd be glad to have you here for 4th or 5th but at least hope to get up there at Colvin's to hear you.  Tell them we'll take them to lunch too -- six of us so they might make reservations - we enjoyed dinner with the Goodings at Hummel House Inn in Waynesville or wherever they'd like to go.

Glad to see & hear from you anytime!

Much love --

Dad & Mother

1989 MV's Thank You card -Oct.14

Sat. Oct. 14, 1989

Mom and Dad --

I just wanted to say thanks for all your help last weekend, especially in taking care of the financial details.  It meant so much to have family here and to be able to spend some time together.

This weekend is the men's walk here; Bill Stegenweller (from Texas) is on it along with about 5 other guys from the Seminary.

Let me know what you'd like to do about Thanksgiving; Ginny said it would be fine for you all to stay if you'd like to come to Lexington.  But do whatever is easiest especially concerning Grandma.  I'm flexible; I just have to be at work Friday.

When does Roberta fly out?  I've been trying to remember the last time I saw she and Serena.

Had a nice day Monday shopping with Teri Tegeder.  Got a pair of pants -- size 13!  She remarked about you mistaking Pat Kelly for her dad.

Love, 

Mary Va.

1979? GHU postcard to John & HH -Oct.10

Oct. 10 [1979? to John] - Madras - Left NV Oct. 1st for Phoenix then Roberta & I left for Portland by plane Tues.  We rented a car & spent a couple of days driving along the coast & arrived at Catherine's yesterday.  Have been out sightseeing today & will leave for Phoenix Mon. morning going to Portland with car & then Tues leave for for Phoenix by plane.  We are having a good trip & the weather has been cool but nice.  It was rather warm in Mesa but is cooling off says the paper.  Wendy is a doll but keeps things lively.  Love, Grandma & R.

Oct. 10 [1979? to HH] - Enjoying our trip & have been sightseeing today.  Saw the rock gardens & castles which are very pretty & interesting.  A  [??] place Rock Mt. Park.  It was nice that Catherine didn't have to work today.  Tomorrow we go to an Indian Reservation.  The farmers raise a lot of grass seed here for shipment with the help of irrigating.  Gerry is watching all the ball games as if his life depended on them.  Hope you enjoyed the Chicago trip & found S. fine.  Will be time to start for Ohio next week.  --Mother

1969 Catherine's Letter -Oct.13

October 13, 1969

Dear Mother, Dad, Serena, John, Mary,

Hi!  I've changed my mind again.  I won't be coming to Mallorca after all.  After reevaluating all the pros & cons and talking to the people in the travel bureau I decided that would be best.  I'm really sorry I will miss seeing you as that was on the top of my "pro" list.  Have a good time and send me a post card from there.  I could get reduced rates if I stayed over 6 days but even then it would cost almost $200.

October 14
Hi, again!  I was glad to get your letter today.  Mail seems to be taking on greater meaning, I hope that isn't a bad sign.  I was glad to hear from Joe over the weekend, too.  I still find it hard to believe he's coming.  I'm not sure if we'll be able to get together or not.

I'm glad to hear Roberta and Vanessa got jobs and also that Grandma is doing well.

In the newspaper that we get here at home there isn't hardly any news of the United States at all as it is a local paper.  Now that I'm becoming a regular patron of the Münster city library I have access to a lot of other papers too.  Of course, I usually end up reading only the headlines and then skimming through the articles.  I went to the university library the other day but it isn't nearly as nice.  Too many people, lots of reference books, etc.

The Rhine trip this past weekend was really nice.  Friday night we stayed in Koblenz.  The Kalamazoo group from Hannover was staying in a different hotel there so we had a big reunion with them.  Saturday morning we got on the ship (or boat?) and headed south up the Rhine.  Once the fog lifted it was really nice.  The trees changing colors on the mountains, old castles, busy river traffic.  And for entertainment we could listen to the World Series on one of the guys transistor radio.  If you are following a map, we left the boat at Rudesheim.  It was an extremely touristy town with lots of English speaking people around.  A bunch of us finally escaped by climbing up a grape-vine covered mountain that looked over the river and town.  It was dark by then and the lights were really pretty.  We took the train on to Meinz and spent the night there.  On the way home we spent a couple hours in Köln.  I saw the great Dom, a couple other churches, and the art museum.  They even have a Wimpy's hamburger place there but I refrained.  I'm becoming more anti-city everyday.  I hope over Christmas I can see some places that aren't so crowded with people.  Thanks goodness for my Fahrrat (bicycle)!

There are alot of apples around and a super abundance of plums.  Although when I go somewhere I get an apple or two with my sandwiches and cookies, we never have fruit here.  That is with the exception of stewed plums once or twice.  I miss the fruit and vegetables but I'm not going to die of malnutrition.

I haven't seen much farm land at all.  Mostly the industrial area with the mines & factories and the vineyards along the Rhine.

My phone number 314345.  Remember that I live in  44  Münster and not some other one.

School is going ok. It seems like I'm understanding less German now and my mind still isn't completely connected with my mouth.  I have to improve.

Love,

Catherine

1979 Roberta's Letter -Oct.14

Sunday 10:30 AM

[10-14-79]

Dear Family,

Thanks for your letter . . . and sure glad for that new carbon paper . . . I was going to get you all some for Christmas!!!  Seems to be on double spacing . . . which as wordy as I am will have to change!!!

The big news here in SUN DEVIL LAND (name of ASU football team) is that the head coach was fired last night.  I'm sure you all are keeping up with the story.  Kush (the coach) had been at ASU sine 1958 -- has developed quite a fan club . . . but obviously some other -- right now is being charged in some law suit for having hit a kid last year on the team.  Will be interesting to see the school reaction to it all.

Also appreciate the pictures . . . are they mine to keep?  I am still anxious to see one -- or more of the actual wedding pictures . . .Were the pictures you sent what Dad took???

Tomorrow is the day that my group is to give an inservice to the class -- as if we were giving it to employees of a senior center.  I'm to cover the social-psychological and biological aspects of aging.  I'll just be glad when it is over -- tho I have pretty much under control what I am going to say.  I'll have the floor for about 7-8 minutes.  I'm going to begin by saying - - FANTASY - - "You are Eighty."  Thing about your current situation, and where you are living, your friends, how you spend your life -- what things you do in your leisure time -- and your job if you are working.  Now let's fantasize your situation a number of years from now.  You have just had your 80th birthday . . . your home is costing more than your fixed income can afford, you have trouble with arthritis, and you find it difficult to do your own shopping, etc.  Marion is really a big help when it comes to getting these papers smoothed out.

I am enclosing a copy of the hand-out I am giving to the class.  Had it printed yesterday near ASU at one of those print shops . . . usually they charge 5 cents for white paper and 6 cents for colored paper.  But, with a coupon (I still have 6 of them) you can have white paper at 2 and a half cents and colored for 3 cents a page.  Thats a good bargain -- in this day of inflationary prices.  You all can tell who was with me as far as color choice goes.  I made several mistakes in the typing -- which I tried to correct after the pages were out of the typewriter -- the worst one being on the last page -- last paragraph.  the word expresses.

Your Christmas plans sound just fine.  I am curious as to dates.  When is Mary Virginia out of school?  Oh, when we were at Church today -- hardly recognized Mrs. Garrett.  She has a curly permanent -- a real curly one!!!!  Really looks quite good on her.  I got my hair cut yesterday -- still have quite curly hair --just got it cut and now it looks all the curlier.  The week before at the new mall picked up a coupon for a hair cutting place there -- $2 off haircut.  So gave them a call for an appointment -- and with coupon -- haircut would have been some $15 dollars!!!  So I went to the place down Southern for $5 -- usually Dorothy cuts my hair -- but she has all sorts of company here now from Kansas -- and she doesn't do that great with curly hair.

Jackie Phelon called here Friday night -- about 11:00.  She is still in San Diego and thought that she would like to come here some tine in November to relax.  I am afraid she would drive Marion crazy -- in a short amount of time.

Now -- to get back to the Christmas plans -- how much time do you think you would be able to stay out here -- I would probably be able to go to Oregon --if say I could be back here in like a week or little more.  I've had several offers for volunteering -- but want to check out which I think have the best outlook for the future -- perhaps jobwise.  Remember the FRIENDSHIP VILLAGE  that was being built -- or actually last year the land was just marked off.  There on Southern -- right behind the hospital near Dobson.  Read an article in the paper this past week and the first phase of it -- some 300 units for retirement people have already been sold. It won't even be completed till Spring.

One of the places I am going to visit is the place behind Marie Callender's -- the restaurant over on Dobson -- almost due West of us.  Remember it -- was being built for people over 60 -- has a health care unit too.  I can visit that as part of my visits for my class.  That might be a good place to check out about doing volunteer work -- because I think they are the "thing" of the future.  Friendship Village is alot like that -- except much bigger scale.  It will have some 300 garden homes.  Oh, speaking of gardens --  am enclosing an article about gardening which will be interesting to Dad.  Tempe Parks and Recreation has achieved alot of National awards for its program. 

That is something about Jim's girlfriend being relation to Hodsons in Hillsboro.  I'll never forget them tho when I had them on the paper-route out there by the Lions Club -- Poor Mrs. Hodson never had money to pay me.  And she hated to write out a check.

I haven't heard form Catherine for a long, long time.  think that she even owes me a letter.  What is Serena doing now in Chicago????  Sounds funny her needing blankets --- when we still have the AC on -- tho its up to 80 -- doesn't run all that much.  I really notice the cold going to school -- have started wearing long pants just last few days.

I sent Lisa a De Grazia bell chime -- wanted to send her something -- didn't want to go the money route -- but hated to get her something she would get duplicates of or not need.  I had seen these bell chimes before -- then guess it was two weekends ago we were out at Diamonds -- and they had them for sell -- on sell -- price was decent -- $9.99 instead of $20 -- and even got the one I had liked before.  Had the ojo de dios -- really quite pretty.  I haven't been out to the old mall (Tri-city) -- since the new mall opened -- but imagine it is taking quite a drop.  I did tell you that the new mall has a giant cookie place -- didn't I?  The small of them (the cookies) gets to you way before you get near the shop.  Have only been to the new Mall once.

Don't think that I have lost anything this past week . . . I did tell you that my file folder was found -- where it should have been the whole time -- in the Dept of Recreation -- which is now under new name -- of Dept of Leisure Studies.

Your Square Dancing sounds like alot of fun.  Are the Pratts still going with you all?  When you come out here you can go tho the Square Dance in Scottsdale and teach them.

Better get going.  Thanks again for the pictures and the letter . . . and articles.  I have two papers plus test coming up this week.  That's after the inservice deal is over tomorrow.

Love,

Roberta

(That's my stand-up signature)

1979 Catherine's Letter -Oct.9

Tuesday, October 9, 1979

Dear Mother, Dad, and Mary Virginia,

Hi!  Things have been very busy around here so please accept my apologies for not getting a letter off to you last week.  The first of the month tends to be our busiest time and then last week we had the addition of several other things to keep us even busier.  First there was our problem with the tenants that we were trying to evict, three apartments turned over, and the landscaping also takes alot more care than the dirt did.  We spent last Saturday mowing the lawn for the first time.  We have 40,000 square feet of grass - how does that compare with your back yard?  Only a few more weeks of mowing though probably and then we will be trading the lawn mower for a snow shovel.

Speaking of snow it got real cold here last night and then this morning I tried to get Wendy to put on her winter coat so she could play outside and she about had a fit.  She didn't want anything to do with it.  Her last year's coat fits her OK so we thought maybe we'd put off buying her a new one until we can get one on sale maybe after Christmas that would fit her next year.  We will have to get her some new boots though.  I imagine she will be spending more time playing outside this winter than she did last year.

The outfit you sent her for her birthday fits her better than most of the clothes we have bought her for this winter.  I have it laid out for her to wear tomorrow as she will be going to the babysitter in the morning while I go bowling and then we are going to go out for lunch.

My scrap paper pile was piling up so I thought I would conserve on my stationery by using this. [Other side is a cancelled security deposit agreement.]  DeeDee and I had ordered a bunch of things from "Current" but I didn't order any stationery - just birthday cards and some of those postcard type Christmas Cards - they were 24 for 75¢ which seemed like a bargain.  DeeDee ordered about 5 different types of stationery and she writes about two letters a year.  Maybe she is planning on giving it as gifts.  That reminds me her new address is . . . .

My golf lessons are going pretty well.  Today was the second one.  I haven't improved much yet (we played nine holes last weekend) but maybe if I learn enough and practice enough it will help.  Can't hurt anything that is for sure.  My bowling is going real well.  The first week I had an average of 71 and now after four weeks it is up to 89.

Well, it is almost time for Gerry to come home from bowling and I still have a few chores I should take care of this evening since I won't have much time in the morning.

Love,

Catherine, Gerry & Wendy