1981 Family Letter -Nov.2

 

November 2, 1981

Dear Family:

Halloween has come and gone -- with something like 190 visitors at our front door.  Had a few soaped windows so it was really a peaceful evening.  Unfortunately, Wells had a bigger "boom" as one of the boilers exploded, knocking the wall in the basement down, but most fortunately no one was in that area.  Ironically the boiler had been checked about a month before.

Saturday we drove down to the Cincinnati area to hear our local band participate in a band contest and they came in fourth out of nine schools.  It was a beautiful day for being out of doors and on the practical side did get the eaves cleaned out for winter.   We had supper at Ponderosa and took advantage of their sirloin special.

Yesterday the Goodings were here for the day.  Bob is "thinking" of changing jobs for as he says he is working 80 hours now and getting paid for 40.  In fact he had to work yesterday morning in an effort to get some machine ready for production this morning.  We wonder if he is sorry that he left Univ. of Dayton position.

Grandma has reservations to fly to WPB on Dec. 6th from Columbus, which date coincides with a meeting that we have in Columbus that week.  Fannie Moore is also going with her, tho far as travelling that is a mixed blessing.

Dad is on the nominating committee for the new church officers.  It was sort of a soap opera drama on one incident for the person had told him the night before that he would take the job and then called up the next morning (in fact, woke us up) and said that after thinking all night on it, he had better not.

Had a surprise visitor last week -- Nickie Wallen stopped by -- he hoped to get up to see John and Carol too.  Heard afterwards that his wife is expecting.  Marriage seems to agree with Nick tho the doctor says he needs to lose some weight.  They were here for about two weeks, visiting his family.  His father-in-law has quite a large farm operation including a potato plant.

Jeanne Sanker came up one day last week and we went out to lunch and tried to look up an old friend from our high school days.  Lowell is to graduate from Arizona State next December (next month).  He has been interviewed for various jobs but hasn't made any decisions as yet.

Mie Young was chosen as Student of the Month at East Clinton and her senior picture was in The Wilmington News Journal.  She did a lot of volunteer work for the Student Council.  Both she and MV plan to take a college English course that is given at East Clinton twice a week for five weeks through Wilmington College, starting next week.  MV is busy getting ready for the play which East Clinton is putting on the second weekend of November.  That same Saturday the band is playing for Wilmington College's last football game.  

Hope that Roberta and Marion get moved okay this week and are soon able to sell their house on 61st Place.  Think that I sent the rest of you her new address.  They have been busy getting all the inspections, etc. before they could move in.  She wrote a beautiful memorial for one of her senior friends who recently passed away.  This woman had been confined to a wheelchair for quite a long time.  She is the one who lived with her ex-husband and his second wife.  As she told me it is a "crazy arrangement but worked out fine for them".  

With much love,

1981 Family Letter -July 26

 

Sunday evening --

July 26, 1981

Dearest Family --

This is the quietest Sunday we have had for some time or foresee in the next few weeks.  Dad and Mie Young are fixing their lunches for tomorrow and after falling asleep watching TV where they were discussing the future of Social Security I decided I better do something a little more productive.  We (Dad and I) took the minister over to Wilmington this afternoon to meet some of the church's senior citizens.  We went to see Mrs. Matthews, Mrs. Howard Penn, Dorothy Bernard, Kizzie Custis and Mrs. Mae Peele.  Dad and I also called on Mrs. McCoy and a couple of others at Extended Care (or Wilmington Health Center as they are now called).

Mary Virginia played for the Rankins when they sang at Lees Creek United Church of Christ.  Mie Young took her place playing the piano between Sunday School and Church.  MV has dropped out of one singing group so isn't quite as involved as she had been.  They would be breaking up soon with two entering college and guess there was a difference of opinion about what outfit the girls would wear.  The boys had gotten shirts alike but the girls were disagreeing over type and money to be invested in their garb.  They were to sing at the county fair and also the state fair but don't know whether the others will continue or not -- without any altos.

Going backwards, we invited the Marvin Beams to go to dinner and the play at Wilmington College.  They were presenting "A Funny Thing Happened on the Way to the Forum" which is the best thing they did this summer.  They had a dinner theater there at Pyle Center but Madge Ann thought it was a bit too much walking for Marvin so we went to the Wine Shop instead.  Dad and I had steaks -- very good and Marvin had a sandwich and MA a salad -- Dad and I also had tomato-zucchini soup which was real good.  MV and MY met us at the theater and sat with us there.  When we took the Beams home afterwards Davis and his girlfriend were swimming in their pool -- a really beautiful one situated right behind their house -- sunken with lights -- measuring about 12 x 30 feet surrounded by trees on two sides -- driveway and house on the others.  His girl is buyer in the junior department of Rikes but is taking off next (this) week to help her father show Angus cattle at the Fayette County Fair.  Bruce works nights -- driving to Cincinnati to work on the Southern RailRoad.  They asked about all of you.  Marvin gets around real well on his artificial leg -- and doesn't seem to keep him from doing many things.  His hair is beginning to come back in after his chemotherapy treatments.  Dad had seen him and didn't recognize him minus hair and eyebrows.  There must have been eight vehicles parked in their back yard -- it was a real test of maneuverability to get in and out of their drive.

Speaking of maneuverability -- Mie Young passed her driver's test Friday with flying colors.  So many had told her of their failures that she was prepared for the worst but had a most kind patrolman.  They had set up posts in the parking area near the old Bob and Carl's near where Roberta used to live (formerly Eavey's) so it is much roomier than in the driveway around the State Patrol Barracks.

Wednesday night we went to La Comedia to see "Grease" as the drill team was selling tickets at reduced prices.  It was good but I was too tired to enjoy it as much as I might have.  The girls were able to keep awake better than I and they had been working ten hour days from Monday on and had to be at work at 7AM the next morning.  At least they had Friday off to recuperate.  

Thursday Dad went to a State Experimental Farm near Ripley on the river as it was the Annual Commissioner's Day as guests of the Ag. Dept.  We sold the Mercury with 106M miles and have a "burnt orange Chevette" which makes our garage seem twice the size.  Looks like we are going to get 30+ MPG.

I liked the inside of the old Mercury but the outside was rusting out and new tires were needed.  Dad sold it to a young fellow who is going to Wilmington College who lives behind Grandma in Hutchins old house (formerly Phillips).  We bought the new one down at Blanchester Oil where we had gotten the other Chevrolet.  It is an automatic - hatchback.

While we were looking down there I also ordered some meat (¼ front) from Wilsons Locker just across the street so picked up the new car and the meat the same morning.  Also did a little shopping there in Blanchester.  I had ridden down with Tom and Flo Brumley -- she works part time in the new Hallmark store which took the place of the 5&10¢ store on the corner of the main intersection of town.  It is a real nice store -- far roomier than the two in Wilmington that are also owned by the Brandehoffs.  I looked around in it and then also went to see the Clinton County Bank Blanchester Branch which is where Tom is.  He had someone show me all around there so I literally spent the morning in Blanchester.  Also found out that Deborah's son is ten years old -- they were both there at the house when Dad took me out to get the ride.  I asked Deborah where she is working and she told me Washington Court House -- turned out she is working in one of Lee's business enterprises -- Burke Monument Co.  That must be a real switch after being a Playboy Bunny in Cincinnati.  Several years ago she was a runner-up in one of the beauty contests sponsored by Playboy.  She is very attractive.  Don't know when the wedding is to be but they said that Mike, her son would be going to 5th grade in Sabina.  She had just gotten her engagement ring the night before.  Just five years ago we were in Greece with them on the Woman's Club's trip.

We leave Sunday for Cincinnati to attend the Ohio Commissioner's meeting which lasts through Wednesday.  Friday we are due in New Orleans (that is Aug. 7th) and MV and MY are planning to go with us there.

Dad had his turn of teaching Sunday School this morning -- our class is having a quick three month review of the entire old testament.  Always wish that I had learned more about the Bible on the earlier studies.

The New Vienna Sr. Citizens met Saturday in their new home -- Grandma said she was too busy to go, which was probably good as they had around 125 -- record turn out and understand that there was not room to move around.

In our Square Dance Group we were good friends with this couple from Blanchester and lo and behold they have accepted an assignment with the Peace Corps and are now in the Philippines.  He had worked with the Blanchester Water System and am sure they would be a BIG asset where ever they went.  Anyway, it took us by surprise when people our age take off like that.

Picked several tomatoes out of the garden and will soon have some cabbage to eat.  The raspberries are ripening again for their second round.  We have been enjoying the fresh peaches.

Glad that Roberta is on the mend from her teeth problems.  Always think of the old adage that we never appreciate good health until we have lost it.  (temporarily)

The old building to the east of Marathon gas station is now a big heap -- the picture even made the front page of the Wilmington News Journal last week.  They were lucky as they pulled the building down and they kept it pretty much within the lot which is much better than hitting either the station or the house on each side.

Space is running out and we do think of you all often and always glad to hear from you -- directly and indirectly.  Wish we could all get together when the Horton clan is meeting in Lancaster -- at least part of them.  Joe I suppose arrived or will soon be in NYC.

[Love, etc.]

1981 Family Letter -July 19

 

Sunday afternoon,
July 19, 1981

Dearest Family --

Last Sunday seems like a long time ago when we last wrote -- so much has happened since then.  We drove to Louisville for the NACO - National Association of County Official - convention.  We stayed at the Galt House right on the Ohio where we could see the boats come and go by.  The Ohio delegation were primarily there so it was the center of the activities and not far from the Convention Center -- two short blocks.  They kept us busy with the many meetings and doings for the spouses.  Wouldn't have had to eat any meals out as there was so much free food -- in the hospitality rooms and picnics, etc.  Sunday evening was the President's reception.  Monday Dad got a box lunch and about 1000 of us took the Belle of Louisville (paddle steamer which rivals the Delta Queen) and had a box lunch brought on for each of us.  Monday evening there was a picnic sponsored by Col. Sanders Kentucky Fried Chicken + others with entertainment including Cloggers that were the national champions and the McLain Family Blue Grass singers group.  The Cincinnati Symphony has them (latter group) as part of their concert series but somehow we had never heard them.  Tuesday joined the spouses' group that went to the University of Louisville to hear someone who has written a book and holds seminars on how to cope with stress in success.  Very good.  That night we went to visit a square dancing group as nothing special was planned except racing at Louisville Downs.  We enjoyed meeting them and found they weren't too advanced (not as much as the Mesa group, Roberta).  There are 58 different groups that meet there and we had borrowed the Harners book to see which ones were meeting when and the level of dancing.

Wednesday we went on a tour of the plant where they make the Louisville Sluggers baseball bat and the Power Bilt golf clubs.  Both tours there were very interesting and Pee Wee Reese was there to autograph whatever -- I had heard of him but didn't know that much about him.  Bought his pamphlet on how to play better baseball for the girls along with a couple of bats -- one wooden which they make there and an aluminum which is made in California, I think.  The latter was a "second" so much cheaper than one MV had wanted so badly a few years ago.

We got home in time to go to the Ice Cream Social at the Lees Creek United Church of Christ -- except due to the threatening rain was held in Marvin Bonds barn.  We took the Thompsons -- new pastor and his wife (Homer & Rema).  MV's singing group sang every other half hour for that long from 5:30 to 9:00 PM.  They had a big crowd of people (and flies) but it never did actually rain.

Saturday we took a group of young people canoeing on the Little Miami at Fort Ancient -- went up to Waynesville and paddled down to Fort Ancient.  Had a nice picnic at the I-71 bridge where the crowd enjoyed swimming in the river where there is quite a bit of current.  The Wolfroms, Rankins and Stan Hannah accompanied the group as well as Al Wolfrom's mother, Violet Kacho.  We had thought we'd get back in time to go to a Young Republicans picnic at the Wilmington fairgrounds where Bud Brown was the featured speaker among other dignitaries.  We stopped on the way back but things were already under way and only Dad felt much inclined to get out.

After Sunday School and Church this morning Grandma treated us to dinner at the Golden Lamb so we don't feel too inclined to eat very soon.  It was a very good dinner -- their prices have gone up again -- they do have three things listed on their brunch menu -- one of which G'ma had -- which included appetizer but no dessert.  The rest of us indulged in the complete meal.

MV is playing for the Rankins who are singing at Marathon UMC tonight -- Tim Larrick is singing with them in place of Rob, Randy and Kelly.  Jody is still the lead singer in the group.  MV and Jody sing a couple of songs.  Mie Young and another girl are going down with them.

Tomorrow the girls start their 10 hour work day -- four days a week.  Do wonder how peppy they will feel at 5:30 PM.  Imagine by Thursday they will be glad to be through -- especially after going to La Comedia to see and hear "Grease".  Dad and I have tickets but haven't decided whether to go to that or . . . [bottom line of page 1 is partially cut off] . . . Friends of the Library that night.  Dad has to go to a meeting in Ripley with the commissioners and others the next morning so . . . .

We are finally getting some much  needed rain this afternoon -- first we can remember for a long time.  Hard on the picnics that are scheduled today like the Historical Society which we hadn't planned to attend.

Glad to hear from all of you -- sorry that Roberta is still having trouble with her teeth and the infection that settled in her ear(s).  Dad can sympathize for he has been having trouble with a couple of teeth and hopes to get into Dr. Hause this next week.  He has already been told that he needs a root canal job on one of them but according to Catherine it is better to have that done than have an extraction.  Wish that we lived close enough to Dr. W. where Catherine is working but hardly worth commuting.

Your Mother has hit all the "High Spots" of the past week.  Did buy 38# of peaches yesterday for $10.00 which one of the Wells employees spouses had bought down in GA . . . he had picked up a whole load of peaches.  Had our first tomato out of the garden and possibly some 10# of potatoes from our garden, which seems good since we planted only those that were getting soft last spring.

M.V. has been ambitious this summer with the flowers in front of the house and also planted two maple trees that had sprouted in our garden across the street.  Rereading that sentence makes me realize that I should get my mind and typing at the same speed.

Saw a news item in the paper recently about a person who found in their attic a municipal bond of the original value of $100 at 10% interest that was issued about 1880 and compounded the interest th epresent value came to 3.5 million, which sum appears to be uncollectible.

Visited Bill Marine Ford Agency briefly yesterday as we thought they were having a pork roast BUT we were one day early.  He has new cars from $5600 to $18000, with agencies in Springfield, Ohio and Corbin, KY.  He has also taken over the small Chrysler line of cars.

Dad went down to the shop to work some this evening so I decided I might as well go in the car with the young people to Marathon.  I did enjoy it -- Mie Young and Diane had solos too as well as the rest of them singing duet, trios, etc.  They left me in charge of the tape player so hope it came off ok.

Roberta, we enjoyed the pictures of the cabin that you sent and will send them on to one of the others and hopefully you will get them back eventually.  Catherine told me that they caught some Oregon criminals in Payson recently.

Enjoyed talking to Wendy, Catherine and Roberta on the phone Thursday and Friday.  Glad that Marion came through her operation in good shape and will continue to improve.  Hope the boat (raft) trip went well for the Morgans.

MV told us that she had heard that Lee Carey is going to marry Debra Brumley soon which was news to us as we didn't even know either was interested.  Debra has a little boy -- perhaps six or 7 by now.  

The Hortons seemed to enjoy the reunions (class and family) and are now visiting Marianne and family and will see Joe there later.  He is to get to Florida July 23 and then go to NYC to art school around the 26th and plans to spend a weekend in Lancaster.

[Love, etc.]

1981 Family Letter -July 6

Monday morning

July 6, 1981

Dearest family,

Hope you all had a nice holiday weekend.  New Vienna had its 7th annual celebration.  Mary Virginia and Mie Young were busy both Friday and Saturday there.  The girls' softball team had a booth to make money for their group -- sold donuts and coffee in the morning and chili and ice tea and Kool-aid later in the day.  That and the drill team's funnel cake booth kept Mie Young busy.  The church softball team also made a float (which took 1st in its category) for the parade and Mie Young rode on it and Mary Virginia marched with the East Clinton band.  All day long they had gospel singing groups -- each were given a half hour.  Some you could have listened to longer as others were much too long.  Mary Virginia played for the Sears sisters group and the Rankins (sang one number with Jody) and sang with her own choral group organized from the high school chorus.  Mie Young sang with Judy Henderson and Jerri Mahanes and did real well in a solo number.  They stopped for an hour or so during the parade and then rain came which delayed them pushing all the groups an hour later so MV was late in getting to the square dance held in the street in front of the gazebo.  We danced for about two hours there.  They had about six squares and people seemed to enjoy watching altho I felt awfully conspicuous, especially when our square broke down which wasn't too often but so many people said they didn't know we danced.

The drill team is trying to make money to buy new uniforms so Mie Young was also looking for sponsors -- each uniform is about $110 and she got over $150 in pledges and checks.  And she still had some other people she plans to ask.  Today they are being paid to move books out of the library at the high school while it is being re-carpeted.  Actually they are working for several days but Mie Young has to be back at her summer job at Wells tomorrow.  She and MV are going to be working in the rubber room this week til vacationers are back in the rest of the factory.

It seems like such a long time ago now since last Tuesday when we went up to see John and Carol and Piper.  Mary Virginia also went but Mie Young wasn't able to go as the drill team practiced each day last week working on new routines etc.  We got up there about 1PM and had a delicious lunch with them.  Dad and John took off for the courthouse and other places downtown.  Later all of us got a grand tour of the Park National Bank's remodeling and talked with the vice president and head trust officer who would like to have John in his department.  We had dinner at the Golden Wok (?) where we ate when the Morgans stopped there last March.  Had a real nice day getting back home about 11 PM so was a full one.

Dad has been busy keeping up with the raspberry patch and he picked our first green beans of the year and also peas on Saturday.  I forgot to mention that John and Carol have a real nice garden and gave us some bib lettuce to take home with us which we have been enjoying.  They have so many pretty flowers too all around their house and garage.

Enjoyed all the letters, cards and phone calls this past week -- G'ma got three from Roberta in one day, the same day as we got one which included another letter for her from the East Mesa seniors at the center.  She really had a rough day (Roberta) when she had two teeth pulled, three people a the center fainted from the air conditioner failing to work, another having to be taken to the hospital with a heart attack, losing the air out of one of her tires completely and breaking her backpack on the way home.  Just one of those things is bad enough.  Hope the teeth are ones that you will not miss too much -- you didn't say which ones they were.

Grandma had rather upsetting news when Judy informed her that Sid Clay has accepted a church in Circleville so they will be moving in a couple weeks.  Kim (Susie) Ertel is helping her temporarily but she isn't ideal.  She wants to go ahead on her own which would be good but not always what she wants done like winding G'ma's clock -- she had to move it out of her living-bedroom area as she wound the chimes part too.

Aunt Mary and Uncle Bill are to arrive sometime this evening for a few days on their way to Uncle Bill's East Springfield reunion Saturday.  Joe is coming to New York to attend art school there for a couple of weeks and he arrives around the 23rd of July.

Yesterday the Sankers came up -- had said they'd get here in time for church and finally arrived at 1PM.  I was rather tired after a full day Saturday that I would liked to have cancelled them out -- was so tempted to call them.  It turned out that Bill had an ad in the paper (Sunday's) to sell a couple of cars so he felt that they ought to be getting back earlier than usual.  Bill said he is quitting the car repair business.  He had just returned from a business trip to Cairo, Geneva and some other places.  We enjoyed talking about the places he had visited and some of the experiences -- like the $5.00 ice cream soda that he enjoyed before he found out the price.

Last Thursday night we went to our regular square dance club meeting, which was special in that it was an all singing/dance calls . . . they are easier for us to follow.

Serena we read in the papers where the bus etc. fare is going UP in Chicago.  NYC is also having their problems in public transportation.  How is the bike riding going?  We would like to get up some weekend but right now it seems impossible to get a weekend that does not have some problems, also thinking about the possibility of combining a Chicago visit with going to Oregon.  So, time will tell.

Finally got our tree pile across the street cleaned up.  Had Pug drag the two BIG logs away and Wayne Davidson came and chopped up the other pieces as our wood pile will rot away before we get it used up at the rate we are using wood.  Wayne really waxes ecstatic over his wood-burning stove he has.  Says if he uses it just this coming winter will have it paid for in the amount of fuel he used in previous years.

We had a damp weekend here and wonder how the campers got along -- there was a steady stream headed for Rocky Fork when we went toward Wilmington on Thursday evening.  Did the Morgans go camping?  With their other activities it is hard to work it in (and have a good place to camp on such a holiday weekend).  The days weren't too wet but seemed like it rained most all the nights.  How are things at Payson, Roberta?  Do hope that all goes well for Marion with her up-coming operation.  We will be thinking about all of you.  Always interested in the temperature outlook for all over the country.

Dad has gone to Wilmington to the Commissioners meeting MY to East Clinton so hope I have talked MV into going to the school to help me with the inventory which I haven't done for quite a few years and needs to be done badly.  She had her breakfast and I an early lunch so should hold us over for a few hours.

The Harners wrote glowingly of their trip west -- went to Marvin Fawley's wedding in San Francisco and on to Seattle for the National Square Dance Convention where they hope to set a Guinness record of 2200 squares for there were about 26000 people there for it.  They are traveling with the Campbells from Dayton -- Stan, Sr.'s sister and husband.

Roberta would you have any brochure or anything to tell about the itinerary of your trip to Alaska?  Grandma didn't even think she would see any more than the Alaska shoreline if that much -- I thought you are scheduled to make several stops.  It doesn't have to be elaborate but she would like to know a little more about it -- not that she doesn't trust you but she has begun to tell people that she is going or planning to go.

With much love to each one of you -- our next letter may be ??? as next weekend -- Sunday we leave for Louisville to attend the National Commissioners Meeting there for a couple of days.  The girls are going to stay by themselves this time.  With their having to be at work at 7 AM I doubt if they feel like too much mischief and Ruth might be more in the way than a help except for having dinner ready for them and clean up the house.

Love again to all of you,

1981 Family Letter -June 29

 

Monday morning

June 29, 1981

Dearest Family --

Didn't get a letter started last night for some reason so when I couldn't sleep decided to start one this morning.  Nice to hear from so many of you and ANOTHER LETTER FROM SERENA.  She wrote that she also tried to call you Roberta but for some reason the system would not go through but she did make use of the ITT while it was available.  

It was nice of you to call Grandma last Friday, Catherine.  She did appreciate hearing from you.  Evidently you had a good connection for sometimes it is more difficult for her to hear.  Things didn't work out for me to go to Kings Island as I had originally planned to take some of the Explorers Sunday School class that I have been teaching -- 7-9th graders.  There are so few of them until we have promotion Sunday and should gain five.

The Wises were to have moved last Tuesday but the movers had them scheduled for Wednesday so you can guess who won that one.  It pays to double check for they hadn't gotten (or written down) the day earlier when the Wises called.  The Thompsons are to move in today or tomorrow.  They are coming from Liberty, Ohio a very small town west of Dayton.  Their furniture is to be loaded today and unloaded tomorrow.  I'd think they could do it all in one day but that isn't the way they work.

We had a carry-in dinner after church yesterday -- the basement was well filled but many weren't able to stay that usually come to these pot-lucks.  Dad and I had gone to a carry-in dinner the day before and two in two days is plenty.  The Senior Citizens met at the Lions Club and there were over 90 people.  Dad is a new member of the board and had written up a paper which he presented to be signed as Buckeye Molding is leasing the old Carter Building (formerly Wells -- formerly the old Opera House) to the Senior Citizens for $1 a year.  They have great plans to fix it all up taking out some partitions and leaving some in -- they have about 6000 square feet of space to use.  It will be handier to come to than the Lions Building.

Meals on Wheels is also to become available to New Vienna shut-ins but so far only regular and diabetic menu is to begin about the middle of July so Grandma won't be able to take advantage of it unless they make the salt-free available.

Wells isn't working this week but things will be busy anyway.  Dad goes to the Commissioners Meeting today and Mie Young begins practice all this week for the drill team.  Mary Virginia was asked by Linda Watters to go to Chillicothe.  Linda works for a TV station there and so Mary Virginia is to record some numbers.  Originally she was scheduled for Wednesday but then had to change it and Tim Larrick was to play for her and because he can't come she is taking some tapes with the music background already there.  Wish we could get the station here.

Ruth Shoemaker gave me a surprise Saturday when she asked what day in July is Roberta coming.  I don't know whether she was just supposing or knew something that I didn't.  By the way, Roberta, we are curious what SPSTNAP J stands for on our telephone bill.  I called information both in our area and yours and they say they have no idea but that is where our calls to you are named -- we have guessed all kinds of things like South Phoenix, South Tempe, North Apache Junction but doubt if any of that is right.

Wendy, my apologies for not mentioning how happy we were to get the pictures that your mother sent of you that I have been so anxious to receive.  They are real good.  We were sorry that the one of you and your mother and daddy is so dark taken in the Elks Memorial in Chicago for we don't have any recent one of the three of you together but the others more than make up for it.  You are getting to be quite a young lady posing for all those pictures.  Your hair is so pretty and so long.

We are planning on going up to see John and Carol tomorrow -- thought that we would all go and then Mie Young found out she had drill team practice starting earlier than July 1 but we are looking forward to seeing them.

[Love, etc.]

1981 Family Letter -June 14

Sunday evening --

June 14, 1981

Dearest Family --

We are getting this letter started a little earlier than usual so hope that you get them before the end of the week.  Mary Virginia left this morning right after she sang with her singing group at our church for Band Camp at Ohio Northern this coming week.  Mr. Larry Wilson, the band director drove our car taking the two East Clinton students (MV and Bill Kincaid) and two from Wilmington.  She had originally planned to drive the group herself but ended up with Mr. W. taking the group.  He was back here by 5:30 so made good time!  They didn't get to leave Wilmington til after one of the girls saw her sister get her diploma at the college graduation.  Wouldn't have minded going to Commencement there myself for Jessamyn West was speaking.

We might have driven them up ourselves but today was the Wises last Sunday and they were holding open house at the parsonage and we had half promised to attend another open house in Wilmington.

Mie Young has gone to the Anything Goes Olympics they were holding out at Mahanes for the young people.  So the house is extra quiet for a change.  We had hoped to help the Wises when we got back from Wilmington but it was all over there.  We had ridden over with Mrs. Thornburg and Wilma and were at their mercy as to the time of return.  We did stop to visit Mrs. Matthews for a minute and saw Louise Waldron there too.

The girls have had a busy week folding jump ropes -- both regular and Chinese (the latter their preference).  They aren't used to such routine work and standing on their feet so long but are getting in shape.  MV will have to warm up again next week after getting this week off.

It was nice hearing from everybody this week by mail -- even Serena.  The shock was almost too much for me but have recuperated and looking forward to another letter before long.  Thanks to John and Carol for the information about the new facilities at Deer Creek State Park between Washington Court House and Circleville.  We'll have to meet there some time for hear they have a beautiful lodge -- we could either have a picnic or try a meal at the lodge.  One of the other commissioners who works with Dad plans to go there tomorrow so interested in hearing his report too.

Good talking to you and Wendy, Catherine but realized afterward how long we must have talked when I looked at at the clock.  May have to put a timer in the phone booth yet for do get carried away.

Bet you are enjoying the Payson weekends Roberta after hearing the high temperatures at Phoenix.  We meant to leave the stamps but realized later that I must have left the white sandals there.  I got some moleskin and put in the white Famolare sandals and they feel so much better.  I do like the black ones too for they don't feel near so bulky.

Tried to reach you Saturday by phone, Serena but you were out.  I have been looking and looking for some fish I thought was in the freezer.  Glad if you were able to use it but hope it wasn't what MV said Ruth found and had to throw out.  It was supposed to be super fancy fish stuffed flounder frozen -- four pieces for about $17.00.  It should have been good.

This week is the annual supper at the Mt. Olive church so guess we will try to go as Grandma looks forward to going.  It was originally scheduled for last week but conflicted with their Bible School so they postponed it for a week.

Dad with the help of MV and MY (Mie Young) cut the shrubbery between the parsonage and the big brick on the corner.  he'd been wanting to get at it but hesitated as long as the Wises were here.  But with their ok they did it a week ago last Friday night and found alot of poison ivy in the midst of it.  Dad was the first to find those ugly little blisters but we all have some and Mary Virginia has it the worst.  She was to stop at the doctor's on the way back from Xenia Saturday where she and MY took the ACT test but was too late so is still doctoring it herself so may have to go to the Health Center at Ohio Northern.

We did have a surprise visit from Dr. and Mrs. Otterland late last Wed. night.  They are now living in Acapulco (near Monica) and have a guest house which they are very willing to rent for $100 a month that has a BEE-YOO-TEE-FUL view of the Pacific.  He is teaching there and told Elizabeth that they plan to go back to Sweden this summer to make plans to retire there in five years.  They asked about all of you.

Dad wants to thank you Roberta for the 46¢ you sent for his recycling work -- we will put that toward our next trip to the Phoenix area.

With much love to all of you . . . .

1981 Family Letter -June 9

 

Tuesday --

June 9, 1981

Dearest Family --

The weather is again rainy -- something we certainly don't need for have had so few days that have been dry -- don't believe it rained Sunday -- the first one since Easter.  It is warm and muggy.  The farmers just can't get out in the fields and most have alot of planting yet to do.

The strawberries are needing picked -- we did pick six quarts in just a little while last night but again the rain stopped us from getting all round the patch.  Wish that we had you all here to help us eat them.  Mie Young does pick but gets so many mosquito bites whenever she picks in the evening.

The big news is that she and Mary Virginia started working down at the shop yesterday and are finding out how dull routine work is.  They both were folding Chinese jump ropes most of the day.  I had a meeting in Dayton and Dad had his Commissioners meeting in Wilmington so neither of us were here at lunchtime.  They rushed home on their bikes, heated up some leftovers, gulped them down and raced back with about a minute to spare -- the 30 minute lunch period doesn't give them much time.  This morning they took sandwiches and strawberries and were looking forward to a more leisurely lunch period.

Can't believe the Morgans are about to celebrate their 5th anniversary -- and sorry that we didn't get best wishes off sooner but hope that you know we are thinking of you and wish you at least 55 more years of wedded bliss.  [Didn't make it to the 60th, but did get to #40]

Bible School was last week and kept us hopping each morning.  All three of us helped.  Mary Virginia and Mie Young had the 4 and 5 years olds and handled them very well.  We started out with 65 children and had 100 the last day -- with many others coming one day or so in between so we had more than 100 involved at one time or another.  The closing program was Sunday evening.

The girls went down to Rock Fork for a picnic with Tim Larrick and ate on the pontoon boat that his grandparents have down there.  Dad, Grandma and I went to New Vienna's finest [restaurant] -- Ginny's and keep wishing that they would upgrade the Sunday dinners a little.  They have for the Lions Club and the Mothers Club but evidently they don't think it worth it or would get as many customers or some reason.

Glad to hear that you are enjoying the cabin and coolness near Payson, Roberta.  Its nice that you take the senior citizens up there too.  Hear that Phoenix is to get way up there temperature-wise today.  Its amazing how much cooler it is in East Mesa than down where you used to live.

Saw in the paper where Martha Haines from Sabina is now at Clinton Memorial Hospital so take it she has been moved there from Cincinnati.  Haven't heard from anyone though about her.  Have you heard any more, Serena?  It's good that Debbie is home this summer -- really work out for the best.

Would love to see you rafting down the Metolius, Morgans with your new boat.  Watch those rapids.  The streams here should be fun with all the rain that we have had -- not like skirting all the wrecks we did one time on the Little Miami.

 The birds here are interesting to watch but not as much as the covey of quails that we'd see near your house, Roberta.  That was really something.  There is a strange bird in our front yard now with a coral neck -- one that I'd never sen before here.  I need my bird book to recognize it.  

Always enjoy hearing from you all either through the mail or by phone and of course the best way is in person.  Perhaps we'll get to see the Hortons if they get to eastern Ohio in July and looking forward to seeing Aunt Virginia the end of August and hopefully Maureen too.

With much love to each one of you, . . . .

1981 Family Letter -June 2

 

Tuesday --

June 2, 1981

Dearest Family --

It's back to the routine again after a wonderful vacation with Roberta in Arizona.  We had a delightful time both in Mesa and Payson seeing their new homes and meeting their friends and co-workers.  Their new place at 707 N. 61st Place (85205) is in a real quiet neighborhood with many families of quails and rabbits inhabiting the cactus bushes in the back yard and they seem almost tame.  The house is so attractive, they have been busy painting and its all a pretty yellow on the inside -- all their own work.  I especially enjoyed the patio in the back where there always seemed to be a cool breeze.  The weather was warm but not too much so.  We didn't realize how much cooler it was at Payson though where the cabin is near (about 2½ hours from Mesa and 17 miles beyond the town of Payson).  The change in scenery is fantastic with the tall pines -- a beautiful setting for their cabin in a secluded area, the road gate only accessible to those with a key to the 60 cottages on about 360 acres.

We were honored to be their first guests on their first overnight stay at the cabin.  (In fact they had only moved into their east Mesa home a few days before.)  We hadn't given them time to get settled but they were amazingly well unpacked and seemed like they had been there for a long time.  Even Buffie seemed very much at home in both places.  Except for the leaving of the family back home, I would have loved to have stayed longer just to relax and enjoy the whole surroundings there.

Mary Virginia and Mie Young got along fine while we were gone and had things in good shape both inside and out in spite of all the rain we had missed while we were gone -- can't say I really missed the rain but it had come at least every other day they say with 2 inches in one 36 hour period.

Friday, the day after we got back was the last day for the students and John, Carol and Piper came down to help celebrate the occasion and pick some strawberries which have just really begun to come in profusion.  We made home-made ice cream Sunday afternoon (vanilla and banana) to eat with the fresh berries.  Invited the Wises (twins have gone to their grandmother's) and Tim Larrick.  The Rankins dropped in (to practice with MV for the Sunday evening singspiration at the church) so luckily we had made two gallons.

The rest of the family really took advantage of the tennis courts last weekend as many others have been doing.  They are finally finished and are being put to good use.  Mie Young seems to really enjoy the game.  Even Grandma went down to watch Sunday afternoon and though cool it was sunny.  Piper seemed to enjoy just watching outside the fence happy to be within sight of Carol and John.

Yesterday was the first day of Daily Vacation Bible School and had 66 there not counting the 22 teachers and helpers.  It turned really cool and damp in the afternoon and I enjoyed the fire in the fireplace lasat night.

We were sorry that we didn't get to see the Hortons again when we returned but guess that they enjoyed the NV alumni dinner-dance -- one of the main reasons for their coming at this time.  We did buy a plate commemorating the 100th anniversary of the school.  There was an article in the paper last night about the couple from Sabina who left the county school $600,000 for scholships and also 300,000 for the East Clinton Library.  The man had started Mac Tool in Sabina and they had no family of their own and neither had finished high school.

Today is election day in NV -- a special levy to vote upon for the Village and very little news about that.

Serena, your letter was SUCH A PLEASANT SURPRISE -- sorry that I wakened you Saturday morning.  I meant to ask you about the two pairs of sandals and red sweater that you left -- do you want them sent to you?  We got to talk to all of you in a 48 hour time span.  Sorry we missed you, Roberta.

[Love, etc.]

1981 MV's Family Letter -May 23

 

May 23, 1981

Dear Family --

We received a postcard from Mom and Dad today . . . glad to hear that they arrived in Mesa okay.  Mie Young and I have been busy trying to keep the homefires burning.  Serena passed her drivers license test with flying colors, and caught the bus to Columbus this morning.  The Hortons, Mie Young, and I all went to see "Company" last nite.  We had dinner at Frisch's before hand, with Uncle Bill paying for dinner, then I paid for the tickets, so it worked out pretty evenly.  Grandma and Serena didn't go (Grandma had a bad cold, Serena didn't want to), so I game Wilma's tickets to Bruce Stauffer and Cherie Cooper.  Everyone seemed to enjoy the musical . . . alot of New Vienna teachers were there, due to the student teachers from Wilmington College giving tickets, instead of paying them.  I get this information from Eileen Cline, who was there with her little boy, who is really cute . . . blonde hair, blue eyes.  Also the Wilson's (Band Director & wife) were there.

I called the college to see if I had to get an application for Summer School, and they said yes.  So I stopped this morning, but College Hall was locked up tight.

Kay Wolfrom was up tonight to borrow lawn chairs for their graduation reception/dinner . . . .  We stopped at Hannah's on the way home from Wilmington today . . . .  Mie Young and I had never seen their house look so clean.

I did weed the flowers out front, and took a few pictures of the nice ones.  The phlox are really pretty and one of the snapdragons have bloomed.  The marigolds are so-so, while the petunias aren't making much progress at all.  The seeds that I planted last weekend don't show any shines [signs] of progress yet.

Tonite was the big New Vienna Alumni blow-out . . . Gail (Caplinger) Hutchins was going to go with her father.  So I said that we'd (Mie Young and I) watch Michael . . . and then they could stay all nite and go to church in the morning.  She is trying to potty-train Michael . . . what a headache . . . and a MESS!!!!  Luckily we only had one accident . . . but unfortunately, it was major . . . I was glad that Ruth had had more experience at babysitting than Mie Young and I . . . so Michael is now sound asleep on the couch in the Recreation room.

We went down to see the tennis courts tonite, but didn't play at all.  Our neighbors, the Davidsons were making good use of one, then Kara Dodd and Amy Cooper took the other one, so it's good to see that they are in good use.

Graduation practice went well on Friday . . . we really didn't do anything, but get some sun . . . I think everybody was using suntan lotion . . . except me . .  I did get a little burned, but not badly.

We saw a light on down at Wells last nite after the play so Uncle Bill and I investigated from the outside, since I didn't have a key.  It looked like someone had just left the light on, and forgotten, so I went back down with the key and looked around a little . . . I didn't find anything.

The UMW had their bake sale this morning for Memorial Day, but we didn't have time to go in, as we had to get Serena to the Bus Station.  We pulled up just as the bus did, so it was timed well . . . too well for me.

That's about all the news . . . hope Mom and Dad are having a good time in Arizona, soaking up the sun and riding around on Roberta's motorcycle.  It is nice here since the rain has stopped . . . up in the 70's.

Until next week . . . .

[Love, etc. from MV]

1981 Family Letter -May10

Sunday --

May 10, 1981 

Dearest Family --

Had a real surprise for Mothers Day when we got home from Columbus after attending the Ohio Bar Association Meeting there -- found Serena here.  Mary Virginia had met her in Dayton early Saturday morning.  If we had only known that she might be coming we could have picked her up in Columbus but didn't think she wanted to home so soon.  Also glad to get a letter from Catherine on Thursday and two in one envelope from Roberta yesterday.

We were happy to see John and Carol Friday evening while we were in Columbus.

I am sure that Mother had more to add to that paragraph, but I thought that I would add a short note.  (This part following from Serena)

For those of you have not heard, I am planning on moving to Kansas City, MO in September.  So if anybody wants to see me in Chicago they had better come soon.

I miss my typewriter at work with the correction ribbon -- spoiled!  I like where I am working pretty well -- I have been there for three months and will be going back there when I leave New Vienna -- after Memorial Day.

I was over at Debbie Haines' last night.  Her mother does definitely have a brain tumor, but it does not appear to be cancerous and it is in a place that is easiest to operate on.  She is in Christ hospital in Cincy and is to be operated on tomorrow.  David who is to get his PhD in Chemistry in July is going to be teaching at Wellesley in the fall.  Alan had two pictures, that he took, published for some contest in the Ohio Magazine -- he showed them to me -- I was quite impressed.

Back to me again.  Good to talk to Catherine and Wendy last Wednesday and if we had been able to get through to Roberta today would have talked to all the family recently but had no luck in getting through.  Earlier in the day no one answered at either number -- old or new and then lines were busy later on account of Mothers Day calls.  So do hope to get through at least by next Thursday -- hate to call too early in the morning (3 hours difference and never able to find her in later).  Realize that she was working yesterday and today for her old friend Harry the florist so if we don't get through before the 14th may call you at 5AM then !!!???

Grandma had a call from the Hortons this morning and they plan to come here next Tuesday and guess will stay through the 23rd anyway for it is Aunt Mary's 50th anniversary of her graduating class here at New Vienna.  The Alumni is that evening.  I'm sorry that we planned to be away then but you just have to miss something or stay home all the time.  We are looking forward to going to see Roberta.

Ruth stayed with Mie Young and Mary Virginia the two nights we were gone and we hadn't gotten back home before someone said they heard we had been away -- traceable to ??? but it was easy to  see the connection.

Thursday we got up there soon after lunch -- barely checked in before spouses were invited to have tea at the governor's mansion with a talk by a Presbyterian minister who is also a family counselor by profession as well.  The gist was to let your parents and children make their own decisions instead of trying to run their lives as well as your own.

That evening we went to the Country Dinner Theater at Reynoldsburg where we saw Hugh O'Brien in "A Thousand Clowns".  He came out afterwards and talked to the audience -- our own private party and found him very interesting.  He must be at least 60 but played part of much younger man.  Said that he had gone to UCincinnati and planned to go into law.

I vaguely remember him in the Wyatt Earp series and that's been a long time ago.  He had been on Bob Braun's show talking about his play and interest in youth but I only listened slightly as didn't think I'd be seeing him.  He had gone to Africa to spend some time with Albert Schweitzer and came back fired up to hep with youth and has seminars all over the country with a national seminar each year.

Friday morning I joined Dad for the complimentary breakfast with graduates of Western Reserve law school and it was a feast.  There were quite a few of the wives there but mainly men.

The spouses then took buses to what is now called Dennison Park Place to see six homes that had been scheduled to be demolished but because of their beautiful woodwork and possibilities were moved to a central courtyard and completely restored and decorated and are now up for sale -- we easily spent two hours there and then boarded buses again and each bus went to a home of different Columbus attorneys.  One went to Upper Arlington and the home was really fabulous.  It was a gorgeous split level with an indoor pool on one end -- I had the feeling that they might also use it for an ice rink in the winter for the wife had all kinds of posters, magazine, etc. on ice skating.  They must have four children -- at least I saw four children's bedrooms that were obviously lived in -- one even had a homemade sign on the door "Disaster area -- enter at your own risk".  We had a lovely salad (fresh fruit -- big pieces) with banana chips and coconut and salad dressing optional and little tea sandwiches and dessert.  I forgot to mention that they served wine before hand with mammoth strawberries as we entered.  The same meal was served at all the houses as I guess it was catered.

I did some errands when I got back to the hotel -- got the cello to a violin shop to be repaired for Mie Young.  Mrs. Liggett had used it and offered to loan it to her during her stay in this country.  Hadn't been back in the room too long before John and Carol arrived.  We had tried to make reservations at several nice places in the vicinity but no luck at any place except for 9:30 PM but luckily got into the Hotel Dining room on the spur of the moment, where their speciality is Duck, a salad bar buffet and unlimited chocolate desserts . . . we would have felt better if we had quit eating earlier in the evening.  Anyway it was fun to try out this deluxe restaurant.  This Hyatt Hotel just opened last October.

On the way home had lunch at Frischs in Washington C.H. (more our speed as the bill for the two of us came to $3.00) and saw Patty Walker    ?    there, also another friend who use to live in NV.  Then to Laurel Oaks where industry was having its first "Industry Day" and Wells was one of the 28 exhibitors.  Esther and Howard had done a bang-up job on the booth -- people could guess how many jacks were in the jar . .. there were 3414 pieces and a lady from Wilmington guessed within 9 pieces so she won the $10 prize.  Some guess were in the 40,000 range.  Had over 500 people who made guesses.

Mie Young fixed dinner today, will not try to spell the dish we had, but it was very tasty Korean food and Mother enjoyed having the day off.  It was called something like bee bim bop -- very tasty with hamburger, egg, rice, zucchini, green pepper, onion, eggplant, and cucumber, all cooked on the table in separate dishes.  Had hot fudge and caramel sundaes for dessert.

Dad and I were in charge of the Mothers Day program at Sunday School -- got Carolyn Thornburg and Jeannette Layman's class to have some recitations, piano solos, etc. and then we presented flowers to the mother with the most children there, youngest mother and mother who had come the farthest.  The rest got their choice of either petunias or ageratum and we ran out -- so many came and want to take some home for their mothers and sisters, etc. so had enough to cover the mothers there anyway.  

[Love, etc.]

1981 Family Letter -May 19

  Tuesday --   

May 19, 1981

Dearest Family,

This is late in getting off for things were hectic Sunday and the typewriter wasn't exactly in any shape to be used without a ribbon.  Hope that you are able to read these copies better.  The original was the worst copy before we made the change.  But ran into difficulty for had gotten the wrong size and no wonder it wouldn't fit though it said it was for all Underwoods, the ribbon that is.

Today is the day we take off for Arizona to see Roberta and really looking forward to going and seeing their new abode as well as them.  The weather reported a cold spell for the southwest so guess that is not unusual for us to bring different weather.  Too bad about the dry dry weather of Florida. They could really use some of the abundant rain that we have been having.

Yesterday Serena and the Hortons went up to see John and Carol and also the Hortons were able to meet Valerie and get to know her a little before she goes to Florida to stay with them while visiting Rob.  She goes the 6th of June.  They were very impressed with her.  Valerie works in the same bank as John and did live in the duplex over them before they moved to their present house.  John you gave them a nice tour of the bank and they think your house is so nice and enjoyed seeing you and Carol and having tea and brownies there.  Too bad the weather wasn't more cooperative but good that Grandma didn't have to get out in all the rain.  They stopped at Eastland or whatever the name of the shopping center is on the east side of Columbus -- made some phone calls to friends and did some shopping there.  Had supper at McDonalds near freeway (71) toward Washington CH -- It's only been open about a year.

Maybe I could backtrack for when I wrote the last letter the Hortons hadn't yet arrived.  They got in late Tuesday afternoon.  Bill and Everett tried to play golf between showers Thursday while G'Ma, Aunt Mary, Serena and I went to the Christian Womens Club Luncheon at the Elks Club.  Serena also made the day extra useful by picking up her packet and taking her permit test the same afternoon.  She wasn't able to get an appointment til next week to take the test.  Had thought she could take the test in Hillsboro but that didn't work out due to the holiday next Monday so hopes to get it (driver's test) this Friday.

Sunday Mie Young fixed Bie Bim Bop -- a Korean dish -- a variety of stir-fried vegetables served separately and also hamburger.  She had fixed something similar for Mother's Day and it had been very popular.  Grandma had planned to take us to Lytles but because of the MYF dinner theater Sunday evening we took Mie Young's offer.  Plus this Serena had a first course of broccoli soup which was also very good and also some home-made (Serena's) cracked wheat bread.

Hello!  Mother is on the phone with Wilma so I thought  would add a quick note.  

Many thanks for the hospitality, John and Carol.  Valerie got the life histories of all the Hortons form Uncle Bill yesterday.  Hope she still wants to go to Florida.

Haven't been doing too much here in Clinton County, especially with the weather so messy.  I have done a lot of running around, particularly with Elizabeth Johnson.  (Mother is back now).  Without Serena's driver's license really limited her going.  A week ago Monday I dropped her off at Elizabeth's on way to library meeting in Dayton and thought she'd just visit a little bit and then go on but she and Elizabeth spent the day together -- visiting other people and shopping.  Serena has been baking bread and sharing it with many others including Elizabeth.

The dinner and theater the MYF put on last Sunday evening was very good -- had choice of lasagna or chicken and noodles, tossed salad, rolls or garlic bread and sort of a cake fruit cobbler for dessert.

The dinner was followed by L Hysteria -- a play and a number of acts which were really funny -- all done by the MYF and few members of the church.  There were around 130 guests so had a really good turn out.  The cost was purely voluntary donation and they took in around $300 but haven't heard yet how much they actually made but much was given.  The year has really gone quickly and without too much bad weather (ice and cold, thank goodness).

They are making appointments to have their senior pictures taken at Allen Studio the first week of June -- same time as Bible School.  So things won't be slowing down too quickly.

Hi. . . This is your charming baby sister . . . .  Bout all my news has already been told . . . . I can't wait for school to be out.  Next week on Wed., Thurs., and Friday we have exams, but we only have to be at school for the exams . . . so I get to sleep in a little, and leave early . . .  My schedule for next year will be fairly easy . . . Spanish IV, Government, Psychology, Band, stage band, and chorus, plus a study hall.  One last year of Freedom before college.

The bedroom in the basement isn't too bad . . . . Now that the monsoon season has hit, we have Lake St. Mary's covering half the floor, but a mop took care of most of it.  After a couple more weeks it should look pretty lived in.

I have the front flowerbed almost full of flowers, with probably another 60 plants coming, if all the seeds sprout.  This cold, wet weather is worrisome.

The Jazz Band and Chorus concert is tomorrow nite . . . I have a ride [?] (on my trombone) and vocal scat with the Jazz Band.

Gotta go and get this in the mail.

Love, 

Mom, Dad,

Serena, M.Y. and M.V.

1981 Family Letter -Apr.20

 

Monday --

April 20, 1981

Dearest Family --

Had a quick but beautiful trip down to North Carolina since we last wrote to you.  The azaleas and dogwood were really at their peak and it just looked like a fairyland.  Statesville where Cris lives is having their annual dogwood festival this coming weekend.  Cris'es place is not far from the freeway and yet in a secluded spot.  He has around 20 acres three of them being a lake with white ducks and a brown something that floated by.  The lake is surrounded by woods -- lots of dogwood and a trail clear around.  He has done so much to fix up the house there and has alot of plans yet to make it more to his liking.  Wish that we had more time to enjoy the visit.  However, MV was engaged in the Sunrise Easter service here, so.

We did have a good turn out for the Sunrise Service at 6:30 followed by breakfast so it was a quick morning.  Mrs. Matthews came over for dinner in which we had our first asparagus out of the garden.  After taking Mrs. M. back to Wilmington we went to a 50th wedding reception for the John Bambers[?]. Then to the hospital for visits including Mrs. Everett Penn, who seems to be allergic to everything that is not cotton in the way of clothing.  Ended up the day by seeing "Ordinary People" at the movie . . . the language was BAD, but a very interesting plot about a family whose son was killed in a boating accident and whose brother blamed himself for the accident and all the repercussions.

While we were gone Sunday Mie Young decided to iron her prom formal and burned a hole -- so now she is going to borrow something MV has . . . they both have dates for this coming Friday night -- the BIG event of the school year.

Backing up to last Thursday we left NV about noon, made two business calls in Charleston on the way and arrived at Pipestem around 6:30.  The W.Va. turnpike is really under construction so was not ideal conditions.  Pipestem is a three star place and really quite nice . . . away from it all and with an indoor pool which we used twice.  They also have a river lodge that is only accessible by a 3000' cable car ride which is really away from it all.  Others have described it as the "poor Man's Greenbrier".

Grandma seems fine as usual and went to the Sunrise service with us.  We are so thankful that she is so independent, especially when we see so many folks in the nursing home with nothing to do but wait for the next meal.  She is an inspiration for all of us.  We have been enjoying the bag of citrus fruit that she brought from Florida.

Yesterday we Commissioners had a ditch viewing - hardly the day for tramping round the weeds to look at draining problems as it was in the forties with a brisk wind.  We hope these freezes will not hurt the fruit.  Spring must be here for the Church softball team begins tonight and think that both MY and MV will go out for the season.

We had a Republican meeting last night -- mostly about who the committee would endorse for summer employment.  Always feel like I need a fumigation after those smoky meetings.

Thanks for the letter we have received and phone calls.  We are looking forward to having John and Carol this weekend.  Sorry that they can't come until Saturay but appreciate their visits though wish that they were oftener and or/or longer when they do come.  Guess parents are never satisfied.  Dad says it is entirely up to you about bringing Piper.  The rest of the family have never seen him -- Mary Virginia did request that he not sleep in her room but wonder if Piper would want to do that.  

Interesting statistics included in your letter, Roberta.

Much love to . . . .  

1981 Family Letter -Apr.12

 

Sunday --
April 12, 1981

Dearest Family,

Another week has passed so quickly since we last wrote and it is really getting pretty with the trees budding and grass greening up -- Jim Wise has already cut his backyard to try out his mower but cut it so short we can wait a week before our mower would be even with what's cut.

Dad and Mary Virginia met the new minister who will be coming to New Vienna in June.  Guess he is older (around 50) with grown children -- or at least college age.  He and his wife came here tonight at church for the Pastor-Parish Relations Committee meeting Monday night.  They now serve a church which is a suburb or quite near Dayton on the West side called Liberty.

Tuesday night Laura Hughes and I entertained the Mothers Club down at Ginny's Restaurant -- had dinner there, election of officers and then played some games including the Ungame (had three sets of it so there were five at two tables and six at another.  Mary Virginia had track relays at Blanchester and got home just before I did about 10:20 and hadn't had any dinner.  She told us the next morning that she was quitting track -- she hadn't really enjoyed throwing the disc and the shot put.  And hadn't felt like studying when she got home that late so that was it.  We thought we had talked her out of it at least temporarily but she did go to practice that day and then game them the word.

Enjoyed talking to Wendy and Catherine on the phone Tuesday morning -- hadn't been expecting their call and it took me a few seconds to realize it was Wendy on the phone.  She tried to show me how her chicken pox was coming along -- she had gone back to school the previous day and I'm sure she shared with them about it too.

Wednesday afternoon I entertained the Womans Club here -- thought for a while I might have to take them down to Ginnys for had a terrible cold but felt better by then so did have them.  Had a good sized group as four of the associate members came plus about 20 of the regular members.  

That night we went to Wilmington to see Richard Blake on the stage of the Murphy Theater who has over an hour's monologue on Lincoln and really gives you the feeling of Abe himself and his times.

Thursday the four of us plus the sr. Wises went to the Christian Womans Club Guest night and had a real nice evening.  Stanley Tam of Lima, Ohio spoke who owns a plastic business near I-75 and the bldg has a huge sign, "Christ is the Answer".  We bought a paper back book "God Owns My Business", that he has written.  He struck a chord with Mie Young as the Tam's had recently been on an around the world speaking trip, including a couple of weeks in Korea.  The CWC have a well organized group and program, including a monthly theme and even suggested questions to get your conversation underway.  This months question to someone -- How did you and your wife meet?

Last night we were on the committee for the "All Nighter" Square Dance which did end by 2 A.M.  Had a huge crowd so had no trouble in getting in a new square each time.  MV spent the day at Ohio Northern as their Jazz Band performed there.

Mie Young took her initial driving test Friday and passed, so she drove us home from Wilmington.  In the morning the girls had prayer breakfast at 7 A.M. in Lees Creek.  There is an article in the April 9th issue of the Christian Science Monitor, byline of New Vienna, about a local farmer's schedule.  Serena's alertness caught that item.  She would make a good lawyer with her love for books AND attention to detail.  Guess Roberta is getting a lot of practical experiences in their real estate transactions.  Had a nice letter from Joe Horton and his thoughts on changing jobs . . . ten years ago we were in Dakar.

[Love, etc.]

1981 Family Letter -Mar.30

 

Monday 

March 30, 1981

Dear Family:

Can't seem to get the typewriter to work properly but guess I can use darker copies since it doesn't want to print otherwise.  Seems like a long time since the Morgans were here and we went to Chicago with them and to see Serena.  The weather here now is beautiful -- a little windy but sunny and warm.  Did have a little rain yesterday but everything is in good shape for Mary Virginia's first track meet this afternoon.  I hope to get over to the high school to see them.  Today is Dad's day at the Court House with the Commissioners so he will try to make it another time.  Mary Virginia throws the shot put -- I weighed it after trying to just lift it and found it weighed nine pounds and is just the size of a croquet ball.  [This is my best guess as to this paragraph which is difficult to decipher.]  It is really concentrated and deceivable.

I enjoyed talking to both Roberta and Catherine on Wednesday and Serena on Saturday morning.  Also talked to Aunt Virginia yesterday so it has been quite a week for long distance calls.

There seems to be a mixup on just when Ester vacation is -- we had thought it began Weds., Apr. 15 but MV said the calendar said we got the whole week before Easter off.  Today I asked at school and they said we only get Friday and Monday off so that puts our trip to North Carolina in jeopardy as Dad wanted to combine it with business stops in Charleston that Thursday.  Will let you all know more definitely if our plans change but so far they remain the same.  Whether the girls will want to take off that Thursday is the big question.  The old saying "Time solves all the problems".

It has been a "newsy" afternoon with the news of the shooting in Washington.  This morning's scripture in the Upper Room has been appropriate.  "Do not boast about tomorrow, for you do not know what a day may bring forth" --Proverbs 27:1

Bob Johnson's closing out sale is now up to 40% off . . . did buy some belts and dress shirts so should be fixed there for the rest of the decade.  Billy Walker has been helping out in the store.

Last Thursday night the Spanish III class put on an evening of entertainment, in which MV had a part.  It was a lively show and good attendance.  MV is talking about taking Spanish IV next year.  What with her music, track, etc. and school time zips by.  Mie Young is getting along fine and pitches in like a member of the family.

Last Saturday cleaned the garden off, put out some onions, peas and potatoes (out of the 50+ bag that Carrs had given us).  The rhubarb is just coming thru the ground.  The "Sold" sign is up on the house behind you, Mother, tho know no other details.

Went into Bob & Carl's grocery in Wilmington after work today -- did get some bargains at the over ripe fruit area and ran into Mrs. Reynolds from Blanchester told me that she had seen Leslie and Joan this winter, as the Reynolds were spending three months in southern Calif. away from their ranch.  She remarked that "Margery looks old."  [Not sure who the Mrs. Reynolds in Blanchester is, but Leslie & Joan would be Aunt Serena's son and daughter-in-law.  Leslie (1922-1998), Joan (1924-2020).  Aunt Serena Uible (1884-1963) and her husband Leslie Sr. (1878-1924) had five children: Helen Reynolds Hancock (1910-1963); Marjorie Reynolds Guild (1912-1994); Serena Reynolds Pugh (1914-1968);  Lucille Reynolds Triplett Hunnicut Ito (1916-2009) and Leslie Jr.]  The grocery stores in Wilm. are great places to "run into" people.

Last Friday morning the Wilmington Area C of C had a legislative breakfast with Congressman McEwen as speaker.  It was an informal session with some 60 people present.  One has to marvel how these "politicians" keep up the pace . . . .  Clinton County is a large enough area for me anyway.

It is now early Tuesday morning -- the track meet lasted til around 8 PM and by the time the girls had to go back to the school, change clothes and take Vicki Butler home we had a late supper.  Thanks to Dad we ate as soon as we got home -- even had soup for a first course.  I was ready for bed afterwards especially to get my feet warm and I hadn't stayed to watch the whole meet but went to the car to hear the news on the assassination attempt.  Reagan was so lucky the shot wasn't two inches away and would have reached his heart.

Last Friday I had a shock to find we'd blown a fuse on the breezeway and everything in one deepfreeze had defrosted.  Luckily Charles Thompson came soon and was able to get things going again.  I had changed the fuse but it blew out right away.  I had plenty to cook that day and we have been eating well ever since.  Glad that I had taken Serena some of the lamb or we would have had even more to use up right away.  Luckily most everything in that freezer could stand refreezing like bread, etc. but did have the lamb and beef liver so Dad had liver & onions and I froze some that I had cooked.  

Lots of love, 

1981 Family Letter-Mar.1

  

Sunday evening --

March 1, 1981

Dearest Family,

Doesn't seem so long since we last wrote but another week has gone by and if we don't get this out soon the Morgans will be on their way east and we have no Maine address for them.

Glad to talk to you girls on the phone this past weekend -- Mary Virginia appreciated your cards and calls  -- sorry that she missed you calling her, Roberta, but she got the message asking whether it was her 15th or16th birthday.  She did have a full day yesterday.  She gave the Earnhart girls their piano lessons and then her group came to practice as they were singing for the senior citizens luncheon at the Lions Club at noon.  That group plus a couple of others came for a birthday bash here -- she had fixed lasagna and a big salad which they had with birthday cake and then most of them left and she and some others went over to the church to sing for the Community Church program held at our church last night.  Mary Virginia sang accompanied by Tim Larrick.  The same two had gone to entertain the February Birthday Party at Prairie View apartments in Wilmington Thursday night so she is getting plenty of exposure singing.

MV did get one of the things she had on her Christmas list -- her hope chest.  (The other thing she wanted but will wait a much longer time to get is a baby grand piano.)  She seemed really pleased with it.  She also got a sweat suit as she is going out for track this spring -- in fact she starts tomorrow.  Dr. Nathan Hale had recommended it some time ago and so she will be busy every afternoon after school for a couple of months at least.

Dad went to Columbus and stayed at the new Hyatt there where the Commissioners were having a meeting especially for the new ones.  He seemed to enjoy it -- went up Wednesday evening and back Thursday -- he came back early as he was having problems with a tooth.  Dr. Hause was able to fix it so he is feeling much better now.  I had thought about going but had several complications.  (Dave Bailey took his family).  We had people coming to lay the carpet in the living room - dining room & hall.  They were to be here early Wed. AM but that is another LONG story.  They did finish by dinner time Wed. night but there were a lot of things to put back -- especially in the dining room cupboards, buffet, etc.

East Clinton held their annual open house on Thursday evening and we rushed to get to both MV and Mie Young's classes -- thank goodness two were the same and MY had two study halls but MV has something every period.  (We were to go through their daily schedule.  Also got to pick up their report cards.)  Mie Young has done real well in her subjects and all the teachers had good things to say about her as well as Mary Virginia.  Her English course in Short Story and American History give her more anxiety as she feels her reading comprehension isn't too fast -- hate to think what mine would be like there in Korea.

Fredia Mahanes passed away Wednesday -- they found she had cancer just after Christmas.  She had spent so many years taking care of their son and he passed away about 5 years ago -- she was only 58.

We stopped at the funeral home to see Mrs. Henry Kibler tonight -- she used to live caddy-corner from us where the Davisons live now.  We saw her nephew who is a little older than John -- remember he used to take the News Journals out of the special box we kept in front of the house for customers that picked up their papers there.  He is 24 just married last summer and is in the Navy located just south of Norfolk.

I went to a luncheon Friday at Jeanne Sankers -- all those invited had the first name of Jean or Jeanne so it wasn't too hard to remember the first names.  The invitations and whole theme she carried out was real clever.  She did have three geniuses of song there to entertain us with songs including "Jean, Jean" from Brigadoon.  Jeanne Sanker accompanied one who had a lovely voice and two played a number of duets.  There were thirteen Jean(ne)s, the geniuses of music were 2 Judys and an Amy.  As we left for home she handed each one of us a gift which turned out to be a bottle of Jean Nate something or other -- at least mine was body freshener.

I stopped at Velva Sheen and they were having a half price sale on any printed articles -- MV wanted a sweat suit but of course they didn't have any of those with a name.  Since I hadn't had any requests from any one I didn't buy much but wish I had and was tempted to go back on Saturday but of course didn't.

We were invited to our square dance caller's wedding on Saturday -- they were too be married in the Aley Methodist Church in Beavercreek followed by a square dance -- a number of our club went including the Harners who invited us to go with them but Dad already had some appointments so am anxious to hear more about it.  (I don't want to wait until April 4th before beginning to think about tax returns).

Today we went over to the Golden Lamb for dinner at 2 P.M. as we had a gift certificate (some of my clients really surprise me the right way) there and with the two girls birthday it was a special occasion. Came back thru Wilmington and went to a movie "special" that one of the Churches was having and also made a stop at the hospital, Extended Care and oh yes, at United Dairy for an ice cream cone (special at 29¢ a dip).

Last Monday night was our Clinton Co. Lincoln Day Dinner -- 270 were there and we even made a little money.  Ashbrook told me the Bank wanted to get that promising John Uible on their staff.  (For the rest of the family that is the 2nd Bd. member of the bank that I have talked with in unusual circumstances).  CCNB has sent out notices that they will no longer have any special checking accounts.  Its either at least $200 balance or $2.00 a month service charge.  Carol, how is your Great Dane dog, or was it John's idea to get the dog?  Isn't the reason that a dog is one's best friend is because they can not talk back???

Serena, we were surprised to hear about your going back to work for the employment services, tho while you are young is certainly the time to have a variety of jobs and experiences.  That is one of the joys of the law practice is that there is plenty of variety.  In the toy business customers always want to buy things for less, while the costs of things keep going UP.  It doesn't make sense that one can make more by investing money in money market certificates than one can in business and take the risks beside of losing everything.  

Mother, if it fits your plans we will leave NV on 4/16 , arrive in Statesville on 4/17 (with a night in TN.) and return back to N.V. on 4/18.  If the earlier weekend is more convenient with the Hortons do let us know, and we would stay overnight on 4/11.  Yes, the two girls will be coming with us.  Roberta "talked" about flying over to N.C but the cost was the anti clincher.

Friday noon Dave Bailey and I drove down to Blanchester to have lunch with the Sr. Citizens there . . . it's amazing that the gov't isn't worse off subsidizing the so called 60¢ lunch  -- lunch, plus everything from A to Z.  This county job is an experience and fortunately a congenial group.  Bert, being here in person makes me appreciate your "opportunities" more.  This week is both the dog pound and the infirmary on the schedule.

Maple syrup crop is low this year as it has warmed up and few freezes since the middle of February.  Hope to get some peas planted soon.

[Love, etc.]

1981 Family Letter -Feb.18

 

Wednesday --

Feb. 18, 1981

Dearest Family --

We got back from Washington and New York last night and things are gradually getting back to routine today since we got a good night's sleep in our own little beds.  But we did enjoy getting away again for a few days and were real lucky with the good weather.

We picked Harold up at the Commissioner's office Friday morning (no school for MV or MY because of a teacher's conference in Blanchester) -- in fact there had been no school on Thursday as the weather had been so bad Wednesday -- they had to let out early to get the buses safely on their way and since it was -7º with so much freezing and thawing of the icy roads it was foolish to have a couple of hours delay to heat up the buildings for the few hours they would be in session.

But back to Friday we got on our way around 11 AM and reached Washington about 8:30 PM that night.  Saturday was a big day for we had to be at the White House for their special tour at 8:15 AM.  The Reagans weren't on hand to greet us as they had gone to Camp David to relax and brush up on his special speech he's to give later this week.  The girls then took off on a self-conducted tour of Washington with transportation furnished by buses at various pick up points when they were ready to travel on.  They got quite a bit in -- Arlington Cemetery, Kennedy Center, and the capitol including senate and house office buildings and ended up at the Visitors center (old Union Station).

Dad and I took off for Gaithersburg for Joe and Barbara's wedding and I was glad to get to see Virginia and all her family.  The wedding was just the immediate family and then we all went to another place for the reception and luncheon. There were more activities Saturday evening and Sunday but we decided that had been plenty as we had gotten to see and talk to most all of them.

After picking up the girls we went to see Louise Robinson and her beautiful apartment on Mass. Ave. and then decided to all go to a Korean restaurant not too far -- the food was very good and we all shared the different foods.  Mie Young was most helpful here.  MV had spotted a Swanson Ice Cream Factory so went there for dessert bringing back memories of our past visits to the Mesa, AZ area.  Louise pointed out various places of interest that the ordinary person would never find or get to see on most sight-seeing trips in and around Washington.

The next morning we were up early and went to a small Methodist Church in N.J. en route to NYC, where we arrived around 2 P.M.  Traffic was unbelievable in the city -- someone told us later that the weather was so nice that everyone decided to take a drive.  Did go to the Toy Show that afternoon and then for supper went to a new place in SoHo district of NYC.  Dad really drove us all around the various sections of Manhattan to give Mie Young an idea about NYC.  She didn't prefer it to Seoul -- even thought N.V. looked better and thought she liked Dayton for a city better.

The next morning (Monday) Dad had an appointment with one of the salesmen for breakfast so we walked up to 60th and 3rd Ave. visiting various little and big stores along the way and also watched them ice-skating in Rockefeller Plaza.  Both days were beautiful -- so nice after the below zero weather we had just a few days before (didn't need my long johns I had paced to keep the chilly air away).

That evening we met Dad and went to a highly recommended Korean restaurant quite close to the hotel where again we four all tried different things and shared.  We had a hibachi on the table where we were able to grill our own meat to suit our own tastes.  We are learning to do much better with chop sticks and didn't even have forks.  The cold vegetable salads (especially the cooked spinach) were good but find the kimchee (pickled cabbage) still a bit too hot for our tastes.  The girls can always manage to save room for Ice Cream especially from Howard Johnson -- Mie Young's favorite place to get Swiss chocolate almond.  This was Patriots Day and they had had a very short parade on 5th Ave. and many people shopping for Geo. Washington Birthday bargains.  We didn't find any but enjoyed looking at dresses for 1275 and a little less just on the rack.

I love the Barnes and Noble book stores which they now have all over the city but didn't get down to the one that is the first and largest at 16th St.  The girls went back to the hotel early to rest up but I browsed a little longer there -- found a restaurant guide to NYC by Myra Waldo whose other books we have often found useful (South America being the first).  That is one of the ways we decided on the Korean restaurant we went to Monday night.  It was also favorably reviewed previously in the New York Times but it always pays to have two agree on the merits.

MV, Mie Young and I had gone to a new pizza place at noon Monday recommended by some strangers we met trying to find a restaurant open -- so many were closed because of the holiday.  MV had calzone Stromboli (egg, cheese and ham in a pizza doubled over and baked which I thought the better of the two we ordered and I enjoyed the minestrone soup.  Many people were watching them being made and baked just inside the window.

Tuesday we left New York a little after seven stopping at Chock Full of Nuts for my usual nutted cheese on raisin bread.  The girls had tuna fish salad but thought it tasted more like chicken salad instead.  We had rain most of the way home but that's easier to drive in than glaring sunshine.  We had supper at the Blue Drummer in Washington Court House -- would like to have stopped in Newark but girls had missed one day of school and we wanted them awake for today so got home at a real reasonable time and were in bed shortly after nine last night.

The weather is still damp but on the mild side and hopefully we won't get much more winter.  Heard this morning we had something similar to last year and then had below zero weather in March, soooo.

Found everything in good shape here and real pleased to find Mother Uible's African violet with so many blossoms and blooms -- just hope they are still producing when the plant is returned to her.

By the way, noticed on the Good Morning America show that there is an afternoon special coming up on March 4th about two young people in wheel chairs which sounded real good.  They usually have good things on the afternoon specials.

Also heard that they are having a week long special feature on Amtrak on the evening news -- not the one we usually watch but will try to catch it -- I keep thinking this is Monday so may have already missed some of them or perhaps its next week on ABC.

Larry Penn and his girlfriend Rae McGraw were married at our church Saturday -- MV was asked to sing and think she would have like to stay home but did come with us this time without too much prodding.  Dad had breakfast down at the Gramercy Park but couldn't think of the name Rosario to ask about him (father of friends from Hudson Guild).  Don't think she (MV) called anyone but the Thompsons are in the West Indies at this time of year.

We would still love to go to North Carolina to pick you up, Mother Uible, but the girl's vacation is April 16-21 and they are trying to not miss any more school than absolutely necessary.  We might be able to leave here as soon as they get out of the 15th (Wed.) if that would help.

Looking forward to seeing the Morgans at this time next month -- wish they had longer but thankful for as much as they do have.  Missed Catherine's call last Friday but hopefully will get to talk to her this week.  Please tell Wendy how much I appreciated the Valentine with a little girl talking on the phone -- she does a good job and must take after her Aunts Roberta or MV.

Hope that you are able to get that Friday off when the Morgans will be in Chicago (Mar. 20th), Serena.  Wish that John and Carol might have more time but not knowing when Amtrak gets to Cleveland we will be seeing them at lunch (or if is it is late, then at dinner) - At least they will be able to get together for a short time.  Thanks for your offer to drive up to Cleveland, Carol, but guess Dad has cancelled out on his Toy luncheon that day as it is too indefinite.  In case something should come up, I'll definitely keep you in mind and you can either bring Brooke or make arrangements if that's your preference.

Just took some time out to put some yogurt in the oven for Dad as he hasn't had any homemade in quite a while.  Guess I'm near the bottom so will close

With much, much love to all of you --